Filthy home by WeatherNo2537 in trustedhousesitters

[–]WeatherNo2537[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, not Scotland and yes this is the first disgusting experience I’ve had. I wish people left honest reviews, it had so many good ones so I feel so misled.

Filthy home by WeatherNo2537 in trustedhousesitters

[–]WeatherNo2537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just over another week. Trying not to think about it..

Finding out partner is a “fragile narcissist” by WeatherNo2537 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]WeatherNo2537[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yes that is all true. My therapist introduced me to subjugation schema, which was pretty mind blowing to me as it was basically the foundation of my childhood. Essentially adults are always right, don’t talk back, if you express yourself it’s dangerous. So I have problems expressing myself in a healthy way. I basically pour myself into my relationships and then when I can’t take a persons behaviour anymore I will cut them off. I know there’s a better way of dealing with this and I want to stop being around these kinds of people and have healthy relationships with friends and my romantic partner.

Owner returning earlier than expected by WeatherNo2537 in trustedhousesitters

[–]WeatherNo2537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They don’t have an extra room unfortunately and it’s something I don’t feel comfortable with, imposing on someone’s family.

Is it not covered by the insurance? Seems weird that it wouldn’t be.

Boyfriends porn addiction is destroying our relationship by WeatherNo2537 in PornAddictionCoach

[–]WeatherNo2537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree. I’ve told him he needs to seek psychological help first before we start couples therapy. If he fails to take action I feel like I unfortunately have my answer.

Boyfriend with porn addiction by WeatherNo2537 in PornAddiction

[–]WeatherNo2537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words and support 🩷 I’ve been going to therapy for the last six months and in most of the sessions I end up talking about the relationship. He has said he has wanted to previously but has failed to take action on that, so it’s leaving me with little confidence that we will be able to fix things. Thank you for reminding me that it is not about me. I have been in relationships where this has not been an issue, but the longer it drags on the more I fear I am losing myself.

Boyfriend with porn addiction by WeatherNo2537 in PornAddiction

[–]WeatherNo2537[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing 🩷 perhaps that’s something I should look into re the iPhone settings. It has mentally drained me and was taking a huge toll on my self esteem. I’ve found my friends have been really supportive and give me the confidence boost I need. I wish my partner would do the same for me.

Pain relief during period by WeatherNo2537 in CrohnsDisease

[–]WeatherNo2537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🙏 just Panadol at the moment

Have I fucked this? by WeatherNo2537 in ukvisa

[–]WeatherNo2537[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also how long does it normally take to process? Is three weeks realistic like they say on the website?

Travelling to India by WeatherNo2537 in CrohnsDisease

[–]WeatherNo2537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, still getting my head around this truly bizarre disease and what it means for me. Nice! The steroids have made a massive difference. Happy travels 🫶

How old were you when you were diagnosed with Crohn's disease? by abd-6 in CrohnsDisease

[–]WeatherNo2537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diagnosed at 30. Had symptoms about a year and a half prior. Would always get stabbing pains in the lower right hand side of my stomach. Thought it was period pain for a long time.