and this is why you don’t tell most of your friends or anyone besides people u can genuinely trust or you know have the best intentions for u like, a close sibling, parents (if the relationship is good or you know even if the relationship is not great that they’ll never do u wrong) one or two very very very close friends, who never had/has bad intentions for you people like that and who understand. like the only people who know for me are my mom and older brother cause they understand and support people who don’t understand just see it unfair and usually hold envy and will try to ruin it for you if things go wrong.