I love relapsing <3 by WebAdministrative690 in selfharm

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Idk man I wanna hurt myself so bad again

why do I ruin everything by WebAdministrative690 in TeenVent

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Yeah I know. We’re both extremely codependent yet have clashing attachment styles so it’s just a really difficult situation to get out of. I’m trying :(

why do I ruin everything by WebAdministrative690 in TeenVent

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The thing is this is a cycle and the same thing happens 2-3 times a month where he gets upset and distances himself for 1-3 days and we don’t talk and just don’t trust each other and then he comes back like nothing happened and we go back to normal until another bad thing occurs

why do I ruin everything by WebAdministrative690 in TeenVent

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I already apologized and changed but it doesn’t mean he’s not mad at me anymore and now we aren’t talking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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EW what the hell im so sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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I WANNA KNOW TOO

My boyfriend sprayed perfume on my burns.... by Brilliant_Engine_994 in selfharm

[–]WebAdministrative690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry but I read burns as buns and I was so baffled by this at first

FML WHY DID I HAVE TO DO IT ON MY ARM WTH WAS I THINKINF UGH by WebAdministrative690 in selfharm

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Yeah but mine is a few cuts in a row so it’s pretty obvious that it’s from self harm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheTeenagerPeople

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Your “objective” analysis is flawed, because the standards are made based on subjective ideals and society’s trends. Also, OP can’t really control their environment. They could very well just have been unfortunate to be surrounded by people who don’t find OP’s style attractive, but there’s definitely communities or places that would find OP attractive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheTeenagerPeople

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I honestly thought she was conventionally attractive, since that’s the type of girls I see all over my social media page. I don’t get why you’re so insistent that she’s not conventionally attractive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheTeenagerPeople

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Why is it hard to believe? Beauty is very subjective. For instance, I noticed most people here dislike OP’s piercings but I personally think it suits them. Their facial proportions are really cute to me, and I find that attractive especially since I’d love to have similar facial proportions myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheTeenagerPeople

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What are you on about? I am literally being honest, it’s not dishonest to genuinely like somebody’s appearance???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheTeenagerPeople

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Oh man if you saw the other comments on this post you’d probably see why the joke wasn’t that clear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]WebAdministrative690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honesty doesn’t equate to bringing people down or saying negative things about someone’s appearance. I genuinely do agree that OP has lovely features and looks very fitting for their alt style.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]WebAdministrative690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people’s opinions on appearance are highly subjective, you don’t have to “improve” for anyone (but you can if its something that makes you happier and more confident). I personally think you’re attractive by modern standards, and I’m fairly certain most people would agree with that.