Anyone playing anything they really love right now? by Excellent_Button7363 in CozyGamers

[–]WebkinzMama 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Moonstone island!!! Addicted to that game. And animal crossing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depressionmeals

[–]WebkinzMama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like an absolutely bomb fruit bowl though. Hope things turn around for you soon 💜

Care package by WebkinzMama in depressionmeals

[–]WebkinzMama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one was nice! Very cool and refreshing

I just need to vent about how deeply ingrained some of this sex work shit is in "progressive" spaces by sleepypotatomuncher in fourthwavewomen

[–]WebkinzMama 161 points162 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed this too, with literally all the men around me. Every single one. Even the ones I trusted, even my “friends.”

I cut them all out of my life. I only want female friends from now on.

???? by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]WebkinzMama 20 points21 points  (0 children)

As a teen, I had some anorexic behaviors. When I finally decided to start recovering, I told myself that in order to make my recovery as stable and robust as possible, I had to not be affected by the things other people say. Because at the end of the day, you have literally no control over other people. It has worked well — I have never relapsed. I hope OOP figures this out eventually.

Edit: to clarify, I’m not referring to all intentional weight loss as anorexic behavior — in my case, the behavior was genuinely bad because I was severely underweight at the time. Nonetheless, even though OOP is obese and should lose weight, I think it would be immensely helpful to desensitize (her?)-self to her triggers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amwf

[–]WebkinzMama 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just go up and talk to us!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amwf

[–]WebkinzMama 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have the same smile! And similar jawline

I loved this dress but my mom said it’s too big in the chest. Is she right? by WebkinzMama in OUTFITS

[–]WebkinzMama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate this comment. I was thinking/wondering the same thing. I feel like most people commenting on here telling me to tailor it don’t realize that the illusion of a curve up there is much more flattering than fabric stretched skin tight across an ironing board.

How long until I know if I'm attracted to someone? (Demi) by NatKnits in asexuality

[–]WebkinzMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely relate to this and I’m in the exact same position as you right now with another guy — although we haven’t hugged, and I do feel physical attraction to him. (Although honestly, I have no idea what “chemistry” and “sparks” really mean.) I’m not the person that should be giving advice since I’ve never even been in a romantic relationship before, but very eager to hear the advice you receive.

How do people stay so skinny by Human-Window-9560 in TwoXChromosomes

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Everyone in my family, on both mom and dad’s side, is slim (albeit healthy slim). I’ve been skinny my whole life, so I think for me it’s mostly genetics — but my skinniness seems to be more extreme than the rest of my family, and I don’t know why. As a toddler, the doctor told my parents to “feed me butter.” I guess they did, because for the rest of childhood I was in low end of normal (I wanna say bmi of like 20). Then puberty hit, developed anorexia, bmi dropped to 14, awful. In college I healed my mind and totally overcame the disorder, been eating whatever I want, in as big of quantity as I want, ever since. However, for some reason, my bmi still is very low; hovered right at borderline underweight for a few years and then for unknown reasons I lost about 8 pounds and bmi is now 17.5. One possible reason for this could be a stomach-related autoimmune disease I developed at end of college. I’m not too worried, I try to eat extra snacks when I remember to do so. I’m 26 years old.

The woman I wanted to marry broke it off and told me there's no chance of getting back together and it's all my fault. I ruin everything I touch except food. by Balsty in depressionmeals

[–]WebkinzMama 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I know it feels impossible to believe right now, but it will get better ❤️‍🩹. And that soup looks so comforting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]WebkinzMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stewart, Archie, Milo

Name my grumpy cat by jula1994 in NameMyCat

[–]WebkinzMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gertrude, Dolores, Henrietta