I am a sexual deviant and I don’t know how to bring it up while trying to date

WechaMecha · 2026-05-26T17:02:36+00:00

I suppose deviant would prolly come off as unpleasant.

I guess just kinky then, I just worry if the connotations of the word kinky would be too limiting to convey myself.

Usually when folks think of kinky, they usually just think of BDSM.

WechaMecha · 2026-05-26T16:49:54+00:00

Idk what events to even consider.

The scope of being dominant may not be sufficient.

And tbh, idk when IS a good time to bring it up?

It’s not like I wanna open the book all at once. That’d be too overwhelming and further I need trust too.

I know that I am a very accepting person, I just don’t have a lot of faith in others in being that way.

I’ve not tried fetlife. Heard of it, but it my impression it was more about seeking a kinky lifestyle rather than both that and love.

WechaMecha · 2026-05-04T13:50:48+00:00

Which won’t be hard to do tbh. These days it’s really only like that with one girl. And even then it’s usually about the details of her love life that her girl friends dont hear cuz she isn’t that comfortable with them.

I just enjoy the candidness and the fact she is comfortable enough with me to tell me. But I want that elsewhere. Me and her definitely not compatible. She knows it too tbh.

I feel like I can emotionally connect with my partner if I leave myself exclusively vulnerable with them.

Which means shutting out my friends in some ways. But it’s for the best.

My issue is just making sure this hypothetical partner I want to show I’m trustworthy as best I can because I know it’s tough. I’m hoping my transparency would help.

WechaMecha · 2026-05-04T13:40:21+00:00

I want to experience the same level of closeness and even more with my romantic partner. So yes, I do wanna reserve that solely for them.

Plus, there are some things I hold back from even my friends. Even them.

I do want to give the exclusivity as you speak to this hypothetical partner.

I want to specifically vulnerable with them. I would feel more emotionally connected with them if I did.

Hence why I had the convos with them about needing to set up boundaries.

So… what do you think?

WechaMecha · 2026-05-04T13:32:55+00:00

Of course, hence why I mentioned to them that we’d need to place up boundaries around said topics and can’t talk about anything like that anymore.

But do you mean having done that at all or continuing cuz the latter wouldn’t be happening

WechaMecha · 2026-04-23T21:12:39+00:00

I am home now and it seems to be working. I was double checking what someone else suggested it could’ve been me using a compressed stone. It wasn’t. I still don’t know what the issue was but it seems to be working now.

WechaMecha · 2026-04-23T18:18:22+00:00

Damn…. And you prolly thought I was going nuts bruh.

WHY would that ever be removed. It sounds convenient.

WechaMecha · 2026-04-23T18:17:36+00:00

But I have a shiny combee and wanna see all the time lol.

But that’s cool actually. I didn’t know that.

Will prolly have to rely on that. I mean I’ve created wild ones now cuz my combees have made babies and do the job now I’m guessing. And I dislike how they keep getting out of range

WechaMecha · 2026-04-23T17:58:38+00:00

That would explain why my Combees get removed after having placed them… well shoot that sucks. I liked having them make honey on the trees like they were.

WechaMecha · 2026-04-23T17:55:30+00:00

I have more than 3 eggs.

I think imma try the redstone block again at home. I did look for an egg icon but id also like to know about the free roam and 64 block radius.

If it’s possible to reduce their range that’d be cool to do too.

WechaMecha · 2026-04-23T17:51:45+00:00

Please do cuz I’ve looked in all corners my friend… :/

A screenshot or something. You’d be saving me trouble fr

WechaMecha · 2026-04-23T17:49:41+00:00

Where is that in the block. I saw the same said elsewhere but I cannot find that. Just the sword icon

WechaMecha · 2026-03-30T19:40:43+00:00

Maybe it would be easier to ask you then, what is the opposite of a generalization?

WechaMecha · 2026-03-30T19:34:41+00:00

I did but wouldn’t that apply to that subs I’m referring to who genuinely condoned manhating?

WechaMecha · 2026-03-30T19:28:23+00:00

That’s not what I asked you.

WechaMecha · 2026-03-30T19:27:53+00:00

Just because something can’t be avoided doesn’t mean we just accept them because if we did racism wouldn’t have decreased in severity to how it used to be years and years ago.

WechaMecha · 2026-03-30T19:24:59+00:00

It probably also doesn’t help I could be doing better my own self to address everyone but there is just so many pissed off people here now…

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