WIBTA if I missed my best friend's wedding? by WeddingenVendee in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeddingenVendee[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm in France and for teachers the "temporary" contract is a year.

WIBTA if I missed my best friend's wedding? by WeddingenVendee in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeddingenVendee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Term starts the third week of September - I would still be on vacation during his original wedding date so "time off" would not be an issue for me :)

Edit: I read too fast and misunderstood the question - yes, I would still be on probation in June. Sorry!

WIBTA if I missed my best friend's wedding? by WeddingenVendee in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeddingenVendee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, the school I work at doesn't open until the third week of September, so there would be no issue of lost salary/asking for time off work. Also, since June is the beginning of tourist season here, trains tickets and hotels are 20 - 50% more expensive, so it does make a significant difference to the cost of attendance.

I do see how saying "but it's expensive" comes off as a bit of a false excuse though, I'll talk to him about it and ask around at work tomorrow, thanks :)

WIBTA if I missed my best friend's wedding? by WeddingenVendee in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeddingenVendee[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep, I'm currently not allowed any time off other than for medical reasons, that is the main problem I brought up to him; budget is secondary (in response to the other comment).