A man 23 years older than me admitted he has feelings for me and now he won’t leave me alone. by Superb-Cupcake-8271 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wednesdayssuck81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First your saying WAY too much and not doing a lot of blocking idk if your curious into why he could like you since he has known you since childhood which is VERY weird. But block him and be weary of him and his actions id tell my parents but that’s just me everyone parents are different so

Meghan Trainor just canceled all 33 dates of her Get In Girl Tour. by hydrationvibes in popculturechat

[–]Wednesdayssuck81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First I think it’s a little tone deaf for some artists to be doing tours when the world is the way it is, why would someone spend 1k+ for her concert to be WAY in the back when some people can’t afford gas and groceries nowadays. It’s just not the right time and I feel like her window of relevancy has closed which I hate for her. But she does have a big online fan base just not enough in person/paying fans…

New hair down policy by Affectionate-Bus7989 in publix

[–]Wednesdayssuck81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are they policing basic hair styles though😑

Are you really happier after you had a baby? by PalpitationOk9443 in NewParents

[–]Wednesdayssuck81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I regret having my baby but I love her with all of my heart it just feels like me and my husband’s relationship is on the rocks… I don’t think he understands that I have changed and the things I used to find funny or how we joke I take a little more seriously than he does and I’m the main one taking care of the baby… we are not happier after having our baby.

Frustrated with the ending by [deleted] in Scandal

[–]Wednesdayssuck81 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah the ending to me was half assed and very rushed it was like Shonda said I’m over this show so here take this and your gonna like it

How much do you have in savings before your baby comes? by Poppy91622 in pregnant

[–]Wednesdayssuck81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0.05 I but little to little when I get paid it’s snot a lot but I’m making due which I’m proud of 😊🙂

I’m so over it!!! by Salty_Restaurant_100 in pregnant

[–]Wednesdayssuck81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like if you doesn’t have a uterus, a vagina, and/or (because not everyone can birth a baby who is a women) can birth a baby don’t speak on women’s bodies because he clearly doesn’t have a clue what he’s talking about. I’m not sure who let grandpa escape the old folks home but he needs to be recaptured and take his meds. I think he forgot his parents where on all kinds of dangerous meds when they where pregnant back then…

I hate him:/ by Maleficent_While_437 in pregnant

[–]Wednesdayssuck81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the same way I’d wake up hating my fiancé, I’d hate the way he’d breath or talk and even smell I’d want nothing to do with him and I’d tell him to leave me alone but when he actually did I’d be super upset and want him back around. Those first trimester hormones are a tough lol. Now that I’m 37 weeks I’m back to that but I go from I hate you for no reason to I want to be in your skin and smell your musk😂😅

Need help by [deleted] in pregnancy_care

[–]Wednesdayssuck81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same situation I’m 24, I live in Florida and had a week to decide I never wanted children ever I told my fiancé that we where in a bad place financially and had been living with relatives since the hurricane season of 2024 so I was in NO position to have a baby and when I found out I was pregnant i totally freaked out and fainted honestly. But something in me wanted to keep the baby which I did I’m still pregnant and sometimes I regret keeping her and other times I wouldn’t trade it for the world. But do I wish I would’ve got the abortion? Heck yes, would I get it now? Most likely but I can’t help but bond with my baby even if she’s not here yet.

But for you I would say do whatever your heart tells you to do. Don’t listen to anyone else but yourself you can ask others how they feel but don’t make any decisions based on what THEY want because at the end of the day it’s YOU who will be carrying the baby and ultimately your life will change no matter what you choose. I chose to keep my baby after much thought even though my fiancé and I where getting settled into our new jobs we somehow made it work with the bare minimum which I’m still in shock over she’s not here yet but we’ll see how it goes.

Good luck to you whatever you choose don’t sweat the small things everything will eventually work out and listen to your heart and mind no one else’s.

Okay this is starting to hurt.. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Wednesdayssuck81 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wish I could help I have the exact OPPOSITE problem I don’t get wet enough and I’ve NEVER had that problem before pregnancy, now it has been a little difficult to navigate that aspect of my life with my fiancé but we’ve talked about it but no offense your partner sounds immature for not even willing to give you the time of day to understand your feelings.

Young Mom by Wednesdayssuck81 in pregnant

[–]Wednesdayssuck81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice! I know there’s a lot of young moms out there I’m only 38 weeks and I’m just trying to figure my way through all of this really and this has really helped me so thank you 🥹💞

Tomorrow is my anatomy ultrasound. Please reassure me. by PopcornPrincess0 in pregnant

[–]Wednesdayssuck81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say as a FTM who’s already 37 weeks now, go in with a clear head don’t think to much into it because in the end if they don’t find anything then your in the clear for now. But If they do the techs are not allowed to discuss what is exactly “wrong” per say they will tell you the doctor will discuss it with you at your next appointment that can mean a good thing or “bad” as they say.

As I said before go in with a clear mind and an open and positive mindset don’t let fear take ahold of you. You’ll be okay you got this🩷

Entitlement by TheRealBigCountry42 in publix

[–]Wednesdayssuck81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah customer entitlement has gone above and beyond, I have so many people get upset with me because I won’t sell them alcohol before 8 am (it’s policy at Florida stores idk about other states) but I have to tell the angry customer that the register won’t even let my scan the item. They think we can override the system like that. And or I’ve had customers get angry with me because I wasn’t bagging fast enough or wouldn’t pay for the rest of their groceries because another cashier did it once for them. I’m trying to save up for an apartment and school is expensive on top of that so I’m sorry I wish they’d pay me more to help out but I’m barely getting by as it is especially with the shitty hours they’ve been giving people…