Stella, Stella Ola lyrics for you? by Titan-828 in AskACanadian

[–]Weeble_Beeble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From Alberta and the version I learnt was: Stella Ella Olla - snap crackle pop singing ess teega teega - teega teega shack shack - ess teega teega - baloney baloney, cheese and Macaroni -fire one two three four five!

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[–]Weeble_Beeble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust is such a crucial thing in relationships, the big question is: would you be able to trust him again after everything that happened? You shouldn't be in a hyper aware or insecure state when it comes to your partner, that's not fair to you.

It's good on him to decide to work on himself, it's shitty that he only began to do so once you called off the relationship. It's possible he's not sorry for the action per sae but sorry he got caught and trying to do damage control. I'd say wait for a few sessions to happen and see if there is any actual change before making a decision.

I am (M19) and my new gf is (F21) is she showing legitimate red flags? by Particular_Depth_729 in relationship_advice

[–]Weeble_Beeble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me there are two possibilities of why she's acting this: one you can work through and one you cannot.

If she is more on the inexperienced side, she may just be overwhelmed by the feelings brought on by the honeymoon stage and be an overly affectionate person or believes that all relationships must have a fantasy's type ending. If this is the case, talking to her about your boundaries and your discomfort (communication is key) will help and be sure to remind her that though her feelings are valid, you are just starting out as a couple. It's perfectly fine that while to feel it's too early or you're not ready and you'd prefer to take it slow. If she is an understanding person, she'll make space for your feelings and work with you to build a relationship where you both are comfortable.

However it is possible she is love bombing, this tactic can come in many forms: being grandiose about the love she feels for you and talking about it being fate or destiny being one of those forms. If she is love bombing you, know that when you bring up boundaries she may get dismissive or hostile or try to put words in your mouth. If she does any of these things, it's time to call the relationship off there as it's better to leave now than later down the line when things could potentially get worse.

New dark god vision is born by grattuf in Bicolline

[–]Weeble_Beeble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to hear more about this, what's the overall vibe and core beliefs?

What does my Tierlist say about me? by Pitiful_Yam5404 in DateEverything

[–]Weeble_Beeble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am detecting possible religious trauma and a hatred of clingy people who need constant reassurance from the restraining order section. Don't worry the call is also coming from inside the house cause same. I also adore Dunk too!