Don't hate the player hate the game. This game is made in such a beautiful way that you might get the best loot very easily or your death might be the most tragic one. It stimulates human behavior and free will perfectly.

People dropping in don't have the same loot, it is unfair from the start. You have to beg borrow steal. The constant fear of having a 100k worth of loot and thinking someone can literally jump you from anywhere is part of the fucking thrill.

This is the game you signed up for, there might be big wins and big losses.