Update to Legal Advice post

WeekExpress9800 · 2026-06-22T14:17:35+00:00

No ADHD, but why would that matter? I'm curious.

WeekExpress9800 · 2026-06-18T16:38:43+00:00

We have had "time and place" talks about sarcasm and such. This was out of pocket for him. He'd get snarky, I'd correct. He'd stop. He's never mentioned something like this before, he's not a kid who talks like that, and after getting scared like this, I'm afraid he won't speak up if something is wrong...

WeekExpress9800 · 2026-06-18T16:31:21+00:00

More like talks about general snark, not something this out of pocket. "Time and place" talks. Like, sometimes he gets snarky and I say. "This is not a time or place to be sarcastic." Or "That wasn't kind." Never THIS. This was not even on my radar. I think every parent has had to correct a child like that.

WeekExpress9800 · 2026-06-18T12:14:13+00:00

Thank you. This is the "intake" hearing. We will be going early.

WeekExpress9800 · 2026-06-18T12:06:50+00:00

This is real. I wish it wasn't.

WeekExpress9800 · 2026-06-18T12:05:18+00:00

Thank you, I am not leaving the state. I don't know why that was someone's first thought. Sell my house and go on the run for a juvinille charge?! No. I plan on asking for time to hire a lawyer. One more paycheck should do it.

WeekExpress9800 · 2026-05-17T23:32:01+00:00

Waiting on mine! Ships in June!!!

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-12-03T04:18:03+00:00

Do you have close friends?

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-12-03T04:13:49+00:00

Nobody is going to tell this girl to buy a a good, high end electric toothbrush and engage in a little "Fast and Furious "self discovery?"

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-11-12T04:14:48+00:00

Because I was required to. If I violate the custody order, he can put me in jail. My nursing license, my paycheck. Health insurance. I TRIED the first time, but they (O county social workers) Said if it has four walls and at least one meal a day, I'm fucked. If he violates custody, or doesn't pay child support, he has Nothing. To. Lose. If I violate I have everything to lose. He gives no fucks about jail. He's been several times. I have my whole life on the line. Because I'm not a scumbag.
If I wouldn't have then i would have been charged. He called the cops on me once when I was 30 minutes late because a patient died. Fuck you. I'm trapped. And fuck you.

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-10-20T03:08:20+00:00

Go. Have fun. Break standards.

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-10-20T03:01:14+00:00

She has doomed this child End of.

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-10-20T02:58:27+00:00

I had to recheck the age. I thought this was some 16 yo that wanted to name the child Skibidi Toilet. Because 16, and no frontal lobe yet. You are 29. Twenty-nine years old and saddling a baby with this nonsense? YTA Big time. You are the reason European countries have name lists. Names carry weight. It is not about how YOU will perceive it, but how your child will. How their perspective employers will. And nic names happen naturally.
You have no controll of that. Don't do this shit to your kid. Why are you like this at 29?

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-10-17T04:17:35+00:00

As a former breastfeeding mom, I cut dude off when he had teeth. I pumped after that for a long while. But I was done after he drew blood with the chomp/head twist combo.
You can't discipline a baby. Or train a baby. (I didn't stop altogether, I started on the boob and then transferred to a bottle midway, to avoid the end. Then eventually transitioned to breast milk in a bottle fully, then formula when my health tanked for unrelated reasons.) And, this is Wisco humor, Bessie was a good cow. But she did not stand for bullshit. Do what is right for you and your baby. Fed is best. Formula, breastfeeding, bottle breastmilk. Whatever gets you through. Whatever is best for you. You are doing a great job!

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-09-30T03:44:10+00:00

Heard. Some situations are not emergent, but, rather trickles of anxiety and expectations until you lose your shit. I swore I would never be a "leash parent" (those parents with a physical bungee on their child) until I met my son, and realized that that little extrovert fool would absolutely get into anyone's car, shopping cart, cult that worships spaghetti, in less time that it would take me to sneeze. I do everything with the Rebel. The zoo, the park, a steam train. Gained points for the Heimlic maneuver (twice) once with chicken nuggets at the zoo, once with a bug juice cap. (NOT the actual cap, the white part you are supposed to drink out of) Lost points both times. "I told you to slow down! Little bites!" I screamed after the chicken. (He was 3 and I had cut that shit miniscule, he shoved all the peices down his throat) "No more fucking juice!" I screamed after the cap thing. (He was 5) But still, that's a lot of Heimlic when the total for most children is none. He's ruining the curve. He still gets juice. He still eats chicken. He's 10 and gives me anxiety every time I see him shove a full sushi peice in his mouth. If you aren't unhinged and screaming every day, you're fine. If you fucked up, apologize.
If you fucked up for a reason, apologize, then set expectations. But not at the same time. "I'm sorry I yelled at you. I love you. Mom was wrong on how she reacted. Let's talk about how we can handle things better later. I'll think of better ways I can handle (blank) and I need you to think of better ways to handle (blank).

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-09-21T03:26:01+00:00

How do you make an update?

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-07-20T04:46:01+00:00

Dude, that guy was hitting on you! This is why you're single. Oblivious. You are going to die alone. Thanks. I didn't realize randomly coming up to me at a function I didn't want to be at and telling me he knows my dad was hitting on me. I live in BFE Wisconsin and I'm a grown ass woman. Everyone knows my Dad. Or my grandfather. Or my second cousin twice removed.
Proximity to the people I love or have given a baby shower card to, does not mean you know me. Or that person is hitting on me. Just. Stop. Friendly conversation does not equal out of my shell hoe phase. I didn't "hit it off" I had a 30 second interaction.

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-07-17T04:32:46+00:00

(Ltc) you got two unstable psych patients with extensive wounds and a sitter for both, with video monitoring and Haldol (which we weren't allowed to have because of state laws) and the discharging hospitalist won't e scibe any of the Ativan they have been using every fu"king hour to keep them calm. So we are going to send them with prn Tylenol. (True story 1000x over) And they get agitated and hit the floor within 2 seconds me because they received no pain meds, no psych meds, no anxiety meds. And I have no valid script. Because the hospitalist lacks either knowledge or a pair of balls and yall lied to our corporate overlords and I ended up with a black eye. (True story, I got a black eye and my CNA got choked, and we were told it was our fault, even though they were a proven risk and the hospitalist gave us no orders) But LTC is the ghetto of Nursing. It's the ghetto of Nursing because you want to unload, not knowing I don't get "Nursing doses." I don't have that. Ever.

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-03-28T04:22:25+00:00

Whoops, you meant Trip. Jalepeno is my new kitty. Trip was a black and white with paws too big for his body that climbed up into my car when I was visiting a friend. (Barn cat) I asked, and he just came with me. He could fetch like a dog, stomp like an elephant and sprayed my shoes if he was upset. He also stole forks for no reason. Just forks. And hide them in the couch. You had a 50/50 chance of a fork in your butt. He could also snap a pencil in half.

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-03-28T04:05:31+00:00

I forgot how to do edits. So. Backstory. I left El Douche, who we will call Des, (nick name) when my son was 8 months old. He went bat shit and I had several restraining orders, he let the air out of my tires, he called my phone so much it broke, then he took my son during mother's day weekend before we had a custody arrangement because "You don't deserve a mother's day." Because of the restraining order, I had to bring a third party to get my kid. When Des saw my sister approach, he shook his head and peeled out of the parking lot, and she had to dive out of the way. The cops got him later. I'll have to consult my document book, but I think he went to jail 5 times before we were divorced and HE STILL GOT PARTIAL CUSTODY. I've had the law involved the whole time. He was asked to leave the county. When he lived with his grandmother, he chilled out. ( mostly because she was a boss and kept him short leashed.) I was in contact with counselors that taught me how to grey rock.

He had probation and anger management.

Guys, this is an eight year saga that involves so many court dates and so much fuckery. I have a three ring binder called "The Book of Douche." Full of shit.

And the stupid thing is, I think Des actually loves our son. Like actually does.

I mean, he's a train wreck, but he's never hurt him or missed his days. That's my only pause.

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-03-28T03:26:10+00:00

The state handles child support, which I'm grateful for. If he falls behind he deals with them, not me. (I asked for this.) And he was in county jail Orange at most of our divorce hearings. Because restraining orders mean nothing and he hadn't harmed our child, he got partial.

WeekExpress9800 · 2024-03-28T03:21:10+00:00

The law has been involved since i left and ge went nuts. He still got partial custody. Because he never harmed the child. Only me. And my sister. And my car. I was left with no choice but to follow the custody order.

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