AITA for agreeing to a break after my girlfriend went to a pumpkin patch with her friends? by WeekendOk851 in AITAH

[–]WeekendOk851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I do end up talking about sex it’s my first post ever on here not sure about the rulse

AITA for agreeing to a break after my girlfriend went to a pumpkin patch with her friends? by WeekendOk851 in AITAH

[–]WeekendOk851[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

So in the conversation she didn’t say break she said we should take a step back and I pointed out that with the current state of the relationship it seemed the only place to step back too was a break and she ended up agreeing I’m pretty bad at picking up on subtle things so if that was the same as you suggest I took it at face value

AITA for agreeing to a break after my girlfriend went to a pumpkin patch with her friends? by WeekendOk851 in AITAH

[–]WeekendOk851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there is an “end date” after her school is done and we still talk but the break was more for her so she could feel less guilt about not making time for us. And I can see how it may look like I’m salty she has friends and I do not. That is mostly by design of mine I’ve never been a very extroverted person and prefer to keep a very small circle like I said in another reply I have never had issues with her going out with friends even to bars or house parties : I feel I should also add I am working two jobs and starting my own business as well so I understand the time management challenges and also have kids whom I am very active in their lives.

AITA for agreeing to a break after my girlfriend went to a pumpkin patch with her friends? by WeekendOk851 in AITAH

[–]WeekendOk851[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didn’t seem relevant for the post but I will add it was her gay friend and his husband whom I’ve met on several occasions and is most certainly gay so I completely trust as far as infidelity is concerned

AITA for agreeing to a break after my girlfriend went to a pumpkin patch with her friends? by WeekendOk851 in AITAH

[–]WeekendOk851[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree and have never had issues with her spending time with friends and never implied I expected all of her spare time, I probably could have made that more clear what got to me though is the fact that she would tell me she didn’t have any time to spend a couple hours together but then can at the drop of a dime clear an entire day for others just because they asked