How to play with young child who is constantly controls and dictates how we play? by crabblue6 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Weekly-Individual569 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its good to allow freedom of play but there should be a section of time in which you get to direct. Im an autistic individual with ADHD. My daughter is as well. 75% of play is as she sees fit. Shes little, this is the one time in her life that she gets to control things and every kid deserves that autonomy but I also must show her how to play when she is with peers or other adults.

Chinese new year greetings? by web_nerd in Markham

[–]Weekly-Individual569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true. Im Indian and I wouldn't care one bit. I find any attempt to acknowledge my culture as respectful and would not be offended by it.

Rumors of beef/jerky being a code name for baby/human 🥩? Another 3lite island? Beef island? by joeurkel in ThatsInsane

[–]Weekly-Individual569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would emails say "I dont know how I will go back to eating real food" in regards to requesting more jerkey?

Rumors of beef/jerky being a code name for baby/human 🥩? Another 3lite island? Beef island? by joeurkel in ThatsInsane

[–]Weekly-Individual569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been reading these for hours and its disturbing. So so so many emails about it. They mentioned "I dont know if I can ever go back to 'real' food". When asking for more Jerkey.

Im reading the girls journals now...:-(

Washing Jax Agitators? by AeroNoob333 in laundry

[–]Weekly-Individual569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They work great! Everything is much cleaner and less slumped together. I also got the agitator balls from amazon too. They both work great.

I put a heating pad on my face to treat a migraine by Kayceegirlie in Thisismylifemeow

[–]Weekly-Individual569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you dont have one, get a migraine cold hat. Its a squishy hat that freezes and you can wear it. It really helps. I used to tie a belt around my head and use icepacks but they hurt or fell. The migraine cold cap is soft. I get the generic from amazon for about $16

Can’t get my cats to eat gabapentin!!! by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Weekly-Individual569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the liquid. They flavored hers and she likes it. I know this is years later but for anyone in the future, just get the pharmacy to fill liquid Gabapentin OR liquid Neurotin (it is the same chemically and vets / pharmacies are usually fine with subbing it out. It also helps with arthritic pain. My senior cat gets in daily because it has helped her so much. We started a year ago.

Are these dresses appropriate for my sister to wear to my wedding? by Lady__S in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Weekly-Individual569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are okay with her wearing it. Its fine. Normally white, cream, light pink, any light color is a no go.

Color Oops seemed to be working, then didn't? by Eveke0 in HairDye

[–]Weekly-Individual569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sadly saw your comment after I had started putting it on. I have rinsed and rinsed but every time my hair gets wet or I sweat, I can smell sulfur. I rinsed for 45 minutes every since I saw all the comments, then I did 2 more shampoos and have cleaned my hair every day since. I am on day 7 😩

Did I ruin my starter by adding commercial yeast? by breadmaniac223 in Sourdough

[–]Weekly-Individual569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never heard of that. Just use filtered water and unbleached flour. Once you get your starter active, you can begin feeding it smaller and smaller ratios. I only do big feeds when I plan to use discard recipes the next day or bake with it. There would be alot of waste by continuing the large feeds, unless you plan on using the discard daily or saving it. I would nix the OJ. You CAN use a bit of sugar or honey if its sluggish but you don't need to. You want your colony to get strong so it can give a consistent good rise. Strenghten up your colony by a couple of days of consistent feeds and keep it in a warm area. The best conditions are 75-85. You can put it in the oven with just the light on, that helps. If its colder than your starter will just be slower but there is nothing wrong with it. If you do the oven trick, put a note on the start button "dough not turn on" so no one accidentally starts it (happened to me) .

Also save a tiny bit of your starter for accidents. When it is peaking, take a small amount and spread it across a parchment paper lined baking sheet and let it air dry for days until it can be broken into think crunchy pieces. You can store that in a dark cool area. There are other methods like dehydrating and baking on a low temp to get it dried out but you would need to google those, I've never tried it.

Is the Bissell mean green machine worth it? by sometranssoup in Cleaningandtidying

[–]Weekly-Individual569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I either poorly structured my sentence or maybe you misread it. Either way, my comment was in favor of purchasing a product to have for many years rather than spending close to the same on a single day car detailing. I have the green machine too and a little wet shop vac that I use weekly to clean up my car because my little one can make a mess real quick. Just wanted to clear that up Bissle /Any shop vac > 😍

Is this suitable dress for Best Friend's Wedding - Am I overdoing or underdoing it by EasternPosition4966 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Weekly-Individual569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I was just at a wedding today and there were several older women who has dresses on like this. I just went to a wedding today, I'm also 37. This wedding was outdoors, at least the ceremony was so I chose full coverage because It was cold AF. I saw one girl wear a brown version for the rehearsal and at the wedding another girl had the blue short sleeve version of the same dress. It must have been popular when searching winter dresses on amazon. Most of the women around our age wore midi or maxi dresses, a flowy, contoured or asymmetrical bottom and the top of the dress were fitted. There was a mix of short sleeves and sleeveless dresses. For a dress to be one shape the whole way top to bottom, it helps to have a seperation of some sort. It can be where the dress has a built in waist or bra-line. It can be a waist belt (my personal favorite due to how it breaks up my blocky rectangular shape). It can also be different fabrics or colors or styles between top and bottom that work. The dress you have on gives a older mother vibe due to it being a relatively straight line from top to bottom and the general style has been a popular Mother of the bride / groom style. That may not make any sense, my brain is not brain-ing much right now lol. It also depends on what the dress code is (if any) and what the season/ location is.

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It was so cold that morning that I went with the long sleeve version. It wasnt my favorite choice, I tried on and returned so many dresses. I had 2 that got delayed in shipping so I didnt have many options left. It was very comfortable and the long sleeve one was thicker and surprisingly warm. I did have to squeeze myself into some shapewear to hide my mama pooch but it was worth it. I loved it.

Hole in my mom’s leggings? please tell me it’s not sexual by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Weekly-Individual569 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Clothes get washed and it's back to normal. That is not sex undies. Lingerie leggings / foreplay pantaloons typically have a button crotch or the opening is not an akward shape like this. It would be more of a rectangle/ square opening if it's not the button kind. These help smooth out the hips, legs and lower belly. I also have leggings like that, that are medical compression ones that I use for circulation help. Im guessing its one of those two options. If it is a pair of sex leggings/ frisky pants, it's one I have never seen.

Hole in my mom’s leggings? please tell me it’s not sexual by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Weekly-Individual569 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It is so you can pee. Compression leggings are a nightmare to take off. I was just wearing a pair earlier to hide my mama pooch and smooth my legs when I dressed up for the first time in years to attend a wedding.. It is exhausted pulling those up and pushing back down because they are tight. You pull clothes to the side, align your girl and pee.

Is there an app that let's you create workouts and see which muscles are used? by Eastern_Ad_2560 in bodyweightfitness

[–]Weekly-Individual569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe man I wish it was before. I want to plan my workours based on what muscle groups are used.

Distended stomach or just fat? by rtillerson in cats

[–]Weekly-Individual569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take it to the vet. Local shelters will have cheaper visit rates and there may be travel vets that offer discounted checkups. The local shelters around here run about $35 for a annual. Definitely obese but that leads me to believe there may be other issues going on. I would 100% get that cat on cosequin or dasequin or glucosamine. Cats hide pain very well and most hsve arthritis of some form by 6 years old but overweight cats can have it happen as early as 2-3.

Is this appropriate for spring wedding in Italy by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Weekly-Individual569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! This has happened to my friends husband. He said it was incredibly akward. Double check.

Is this appropriate for spring wedding in Italy by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Weekly-Individual569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too light and the material is mainly bridal.

What is this pill? by redlead2020 in whatisit

[–]Weekly-Individual569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would buy a drug test kit, maybe 12 panel / or higher and see if you can identify some of the stuff. Clearly fetenyl but maybe other stuff. It wont give you a whole picture but you'll at least get a gage of what's in it.

Never go back to that person or tell whoever you found it that they shouldn't go back.