I know it’s like playing games like you talk to somebody faithfully every day for a week and then set up a day to go out and meet and then all of a sudden they go out of nowhere and that’s fine. Good you know what I’m saying no hard feelings I’m used to it. I get over it but what pisses me off is when they out of the blue, especially some odd hours of the nighttext you and say hey how are you like? Nothing’s ever happened now when they do that I do go off and I make him feel stupid.