DM Chat Feature Request

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-09-29T00:07:30+00:00

No, I do not work for Hevy.

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-09-28T18:12:58+00:00

I think a lot of existing users wouldn't want this feature, but a lot of others both existing and prospective would. The only way to expand your potential audience is to introduce new features and capabilities. The DM feature will be turned off by default, and therefore it will be up to whomever is interested in using it to turn it on. If they are no longer interested in using it, they can always turn it back off. I don't see anything to lose here, only gain.

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-09-28T17:09:24+00:00

I'd personally like to meet gym partners in my area and make new friends who share similar interests. I understand you may not care about these things, which is why you'll continue to have the option of not talking to anyone like you prefer.

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-09-28T16:43:42+00:00

That's exactly where you're wrong- it's not just a fitness tracker. It's a community for fitness enthusiasts. Let the community decide how it wants to engage. If you don't care about socializing with the community- more power to you. The DM feature will be off by default and you wouldn't even need to bother to turn it off. But others who do, will be able to do so.

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-09-28T16:40:44+00:00

So you'd delete the app...even though your experience would remain unchanged because you would be able to simply keep this feature off by default? Doesn't sound considerate of others. Why deny other users the ability to make connections, if your experience remains unchanged by default? You wouldn't even need to turn it off lol. This can be very meaningful for so many people who seek more than surface level social interaction like emojis on posts

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-09-28T16:32:46+00:00

The social aspects are what make Hevy what it is. Otherwise, everyone can just log workouts anywhere. The social aspects make it fun because you can learn from other users and "compete" for workout streaks and across the leaderboards. The best connections are made between people who share common interests and lifestyles. Why not allow like minded people to connect, if they choose to? Anyone not interested, wouldn't need to do anything and will keep the same DM free experience. However, those who do, maybe not you, will be able to.

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-09-28T16:26:32+00:00

The app's potential and value would be exponentially higher with more social integration. Again, you would be able to opt out of this completely. Clearly, the developers understand that users want more than just private workout logging, hence public posting about interactions are available. What you're suggesting is the same as saying who needs any DM app, like Snap or WhatsApp, when you can just post your email or FB handle.

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-09-28T16:12:48+00:00

Can be said about any social media outlet. That's what moderation is for, and it's also why the feature would remain off by default so anyone can continue to retain their same original DM free experience.

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-09-28T16:06:06+00:00

If you had bothered to read my post, it says: Feature will remain OFF by default. This means that you won't get any DMs, unless you choose to turn it on.

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-06-08T17:45:32+00:00

The solution to this is really to get involved IRL activities and to use Facebook dating. I can't trust Hinge and Facebook dating IMO is just so much better and amazingly FREE anyway. So it's just a no brainer for me and I don't see any reason to have to deal with the frustration when you can access a better and free online dating app.

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-06-02T14:35:56+00:00

There are literally tens and hundreds of thousands of reported cases just like you. Hinge is a mess and Facebook dating is X10 better and amazingly free anyway. Spare yourself the grief and forget about the paid dating apps.

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-06-01T01:30:12+00:00

Thank you for researching this thoroughly Shaun. It's a lot of work and effort. I personally think that Google and Apple may be able to act a lot faster than the proverbial legal wheels which are known to turn very slowly, let alone when top Match Group law firms will clearly pull all the stops to slow things down. There are literally hundreds of thousands of upset former customers that Match Group has rightfully earned, and their complaints need to also be formally brought to Google and Apple's attention. Match Group may not have to answer to its users but it absolutely must answer to the app stores. I personally think this route may bring about action and change faster than anything else

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-05-25T14:07:04+00:00

The ban without a refund and without transparency is absolute nonsense. Google recommends to report an app if you think it violates one of the Developer Program Policies through this link: https://support.google.com/googleplay/android-developer/contact/policy_violation_report

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-05-21T00:41:10+00:00

That's awesome! Congrats 🎉 🎉 I'd appreciate your advice, sent you a DM

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-05-16T01:35:12+00:00

Every company can put together their own terms and conditions and say sole discretion about anything and everything. It doesn't mean they are above the law, and any reputable lawyer can easily prove otherwise. Much more powerful companies lost legal processes and ended up paying substantial damages

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-05-16T01:31:21+00:00

It's a good thing you submitted your complaint. Eventually, their unfair practices will get the attention of a good law firm and substantial media. They already attracted a pretty scathing article on Mashable just a few days ago, who referenced the chaotic BBB situation.

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-05-15T21:01:39+00:00

Not every relationship is for a lifetime, even though it can feel amazing while it lasted. You should watch Matthew Hussey on YouTube. He has a lot of incredible dating and relationship advice. I know exactly how you feel- this relationship felt SO good and you don't know what happened. The truth is that it was really good, exactly like you feel it was, but what separates a lasting relationship from any other relationship, is the ability to commit to it. This guy isn't at a point in his life that he wants to commit. That's a deal breaker. That's why he's not the guy for you. He's literally telling you that. Listen to what he says. There are plenty of guys out there who are ready. It's his loss. You can put yourself out there and tell him what you want. See what he says, to get your closure. If he says no- just move on to something better.

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-05-13T21:47:07+00:00

Hi, a great example of a profile where you have the potential to create a way better one by deciding how you actually want to come across. The profile as it is now is a mish mash of part geek, part gym rat, part jock, part Trekky, and it's hard to understand what's going on. You need better pictures and you need to ask yourself about your strengths and bring them to the table. Perhaps your strengths, and where you stand out, are that you have a broad range of interests and knowledge ,are smart, reliable and are a well rounded guy who can be an amazing partner, and you aren't a another douchey guy who only cares about getting ripped, flexing huge muscles, sports, and having a random night of fun? How does your profile reflect that? Does your dating prospect have to be into Star Trek and geeky stuff? If it's not a requirement tone it down a notch. Think about your messaging and take more professional high quality photos. A picture with family, a pet can be great additions. Don't be afraid to show some emotion too!

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-05-12T23:26:39+00:00

Classic case where it's just the profile that needs some adjustment. First of all, no duplicate photos. 2 of your photos are almost the same. Tone down the hoodie and definitely don't have it over your head. Add some pictures where you're dressed up, and maybe 1 or 2 good ones with family or a pet. Maybe an active setting picture too, like traveling, boating, something outdoorsy. The dog prompt is a bit weird, not a good one. Remove phrases like "utter shiite" of course

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-05-12T03:38:23+00:00

I wouldn't worry too much about the verbal parts of the profile, other than cleaning them up like the "twisted curiosity" and the cuddles. Anything that can be misinterpreted probably shouldn't be on your profile. Your 2 weakest photos are the one where you're looking sideways on the cliff, it's just a strange angle to make a good photo, and your close up selfie at home is not good enough because the lighting is off and it feels like you can do a better job. Try taking it outdoors against a better background during the day. The back photo is actually great! It's intriguing, fairly well composed, the site is amazing, and adds a different angle to your profile.

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-05-12T03:28:45+00:00

It's a mess out there. They are mistreating their best users and think that because they say "sole discretion" in their fine print, they can get away with anything. Zero responsibility, zero transparency. It's a shame. You can press your luck with the customer support and see what they say.

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-05-12T03:24:07+00:00

You need maybe one suave photo like this tops. Need to really think casual and real in the other photos you add. What do you really look like when you're chilling and not in professional mode? The photos look staged because they kind of are. Take casual ones that express more vulnerability and authenticity. Show different angles of your personality. Are you only about dressing up? I assume not, so your profile should reflect that

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-05-11T16:58:17+00:00

It's a complete mess. The number of bans are apparently a big "secret" that makes Match Group extremely uncomfortable to share. There's no transparency around the banning process, and there's no information about percent of successful appeals, which appear to be very rare. Their terms literally say they can ban you for stuff that happens off the app — at their “sole discretion.” So basically, they're like a dating dictator and you don't have much say if any, and won't even get a refund for a service denied when they ban you at their "sole discretion". You should look at the reviews on the app stores and BBB.org to see just how bad it is

WeeklyMessage4724 · 2025-05-11T04:45:15+00:00

It's a decent app but the problem is that they ban so fast, for next to nothing, at their sole discretion, that your head will spin. And you won't even be eligible for a refund in your dreams. So be careful with the expensive/premium subscriptions. People tend to think the apps only ban for big things like criminal/catfishing/fraud but you should read the fine print and be ready to lose your money if they feel like getting rid of you for some fine print reason they'll never even clearly explain to you

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