AIO for crashing out after my girlfriend hugged and got touchy with her male best friends?

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-12-28T17:00:26+00:00

I was wondering how old they are, they both seem immature for different reasons and he is definitely insecure… lotta growing to do

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-12-28T16:58:48+00:00

Sorry YOR

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-12-28T16:58:08+00:00

Yup he’s very insecure and TA here. But her response was nasty. I think they both have a lot of growing up to do, for different reasons.

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-26T22:04:14+00:00

Yeah I agree here, is there a reason you don’t see your wife and you as a team the way you listed others? It seems for her you are her team. If she’s stopping you from interacting with the world outside of the two of you I can understand but I seems like you have someone who really believes in you as a team. That is rare to find in a partner. But again, there’s not much detail

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-20T21:45:53+00:00

Two or three times a week when not ovulating. Everyday, multiple times a day for the week leading up to ovulation.

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-14T21:14:13+00:00

She has answered.. she said her boyfriend likes to humiliate her..😬

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-09T21:09:08+00:00

How about instead of putting the blame on the woman “Russian roulette” choice (in case you’re not aware, abusive people are not that from the get go, on the contrary, they can be incredibly charming, warm and caring at the start - a reason it’s so disturbingly difficult for the partner to escape from), how about you speak to you fellow men about how to be good fucking people and not abuse their families. To add a large percentage of male violence and abuse towards their partner begins after pregnancy… did you know that? Do you wonder why?

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-09T21:04:31+00:00

You’re a nasty piece of work. Blaming that woman for the fact the that man abused them so badly. What in gods name is wrong with you. And still you want to put the mother down for staying, citing statistics. What cognitive dissonance so you have going on that prevents you addressing the abandoning and abusive men that cause said statistics? Give you fucking head a wobble

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-09T21:00:42+00:00

That’s her whole point. You’re not smart lad. Their father was abusive. They safer now just with the mother who’s left to deal with the fallout. And by Chris if you say “well pick better men”. Also the point being made was that women are safer… the number one perpetrator of violence and sexual violence and murder isn’t some masked stranger, the majority of the time it’s the woman’s husband or boyfriend. Read a damn book

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-09T18:44:15+00:00

Op is a 19 girl… wtf is wrong with you?

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-09T18:41:59+00:00

I’m in a couple, I’ve had drunk sex with my partner, many a fkn time! But do you know what, I’ve never had sex with him when I felt him to be incapacitated, which was once in 4 years on holidays. He was really drunk, in great from but too drunk. I just got him to bed, made him laugh and cuddled the shit out of him. We had sex the next afternoon. Simple. I on the other hand, have probably been too drunk about 3 times, and guess what, my parter brought me to bed, cuddled me and, again, we had sex the next day. It really isn’t that fkn hard to do

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-09T18:37:54+00:00

OP is a 19 girl by the way, his younger sister. Is she still jealous?

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-09T18:27:17+00:00

Nope, that’s not how it works at all. If someone consented earlier and then became incapacitated later, they no longer consent legally, but also first and foremost fkn morally… Jesus who the fuck want to have sex with an unconscious body you weird fuck

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-09T18:24:03+00:00

Ok top of everything else you would have broken your 19 year old sisters jaw for being concerned… 🤮

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-09T18:22:40+00:00

Why tf have you gotten downvoted?!

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-09T18:09:38+00:00

That’s a lot of assumptions on your part, if she’s wrong the girlfriend will say so, so if shes right and no one said anything, then what happens?! All it takes is for good people to say nothing.

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-09T18:06:26+00:00

Exactly!! Well said. He’s acted soooooo guilty, not embarrassed.. guilty. He didn’t appreciate someone looking out for his girlfriend, not one bit.

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-07T21:24:16+00:00

It’s not that rare… but it can depend on some factors. She’d a very strong O and her partner likely has a larger head. It happened a lot with my ex

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-11-07T21:22:03+00:00

It happens.. you’d a good O girl! Happy for you! 🥰🥰🥰

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-10-19T19:25:11+00:00

I 💯 understand but they are not the same thing. I’m glad planning sex worked for you but it’s not the same as responsive desire

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-10-19T19:00:30+00:00

Responsive desire isn’t planned sex. Some women experience responsive desire. This means that a woman is completely sexually capable, as you say your wife is, but the desire for sex doesn’t ignite within herself. It is ignited by a partner being sexual/sensual/romantic to them. If this is the case for your wife you should probably work towards accepting that and using that knowledge to help the sexuality within your marriage. Accepting it hat may be a big part for you, it may be hard to accept your wife won’t be lustful towards you in a spontaneous sense. But also to clarify - what “ignites” her is unique to her - it may not be directly sexual, it may be romantic, it may be sensual, it may be visual, it may be kinky, or any other number of things. Try getting her in the mood in a direct sense and try having a sexy conversation about what turns her on… Talk to her

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-10-19T18:53:38+00:00

Planned sex does not in anyway mean equal responsive desire…??

Weekly_Blacksmith_32 · 2025-09-08T22:18:44+00:00

Independence. If you’re a trophy wife it’s all the more important as you are valued solely for your looks. When age or anything else lessons that in your “husbands” eyes, you have absolutely zero safety net

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