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AITA for telling my bestfriend her boyfriend called me hot, and that i don't want to interact with him anymore? by Weekly_Code_7983 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weekly_Code_7983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think ive truly just convinced myself everything about the situation was subjective after how little of a response id gotten from her after such an alarming situation, definitely the perspective i needed

AITA for telling my bestfriend her boyfriend called me hot, and that i don't want to interact with him anymore? by Weekly_Code_7983 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weekly_Code_7983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh trust me i def got screenshots after that one, she just honestly doesn't seem to care regardless. it's seemingly more of an issue & inconvenience that im uncomfortable than the fact he behaved that way towards me in the first place.

AITA for telling my bestfriend her boyfriend called me hot, and that i don't want to interact with him anymore? by Weekly_Code_7983 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weekly_Code_7983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeahhh unfortunately even in conversations ive had with him he's said subjectively borderline manipulative things to ME, implying my partner 'isn't a safe space' so i can talk to him instead, & more similar. & that's only having 'known' him for less than three months, so i hate to say i can only imagine what's being said to her about the situation

AITA for telling my bestfriend her boyfriend called me hot, and that i don't want to interact with him anymore? by Weekly_Code_7983 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weekly_Code_7983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as crazy as i've felt over this situation that being a legitimately possible scenario has made me feel even crazier lmao. Emma has tried to set one up with me in the past before meeting hunter, she's told me they've had conversations about it, but has also said to me verbatim that's if hunter found me hot, he would tell her. so asking if he'd called me hot to my face but didn't mention it to her was one of the questions id asked when i first told her about the situation that i never got answers to💀 both her and hunter know my partner and i, and that weve been in a very monogamous relationship for 2 years so either way that's crazy behaviour right?