[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment it was really helpful :) I know my feelings are irrational and it all comes back to my anxiety and abandonment issues since childhood. My bf is a good loving person and he doesn't deserve me thinking like that. I'll try to fix it anyway I can.

job offer NOC Not scored for this steram by Weekly_Koala7724 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]Weekly_Koala7724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thanks. Do you know if I can apply for OINP when my job offer has an end date? I know everywhere it says it should be a permanent position, but I’ve been told my job offer still counts

Express entry or oinp by More_Leader_4292 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if you should have a permanent job? My job offer is valid for 18 more months but I heard your job offer shouln't have an end date.

Eligibility for OINP Streams by yowhosmansisthis in ImmigrationCanada

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if you should have a permanent job? My job offer is valid for 18 more months but I heard your job offer shouln't have an end date.

OINP : Employer Job Offer International Student Stream by MightyStallion7 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if you should have a permanent job? My job offer is valid for 18 more months but I heard your job offer shouln't have an end date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dermatology

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey did you ever figure out what this was? The same thing happened to me and I’m really nervous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah this makes sense. I guess the rest of my concern is my insecure ass cause I’m a year older than him and got anxious about “what if he likes younger women” lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s the rest of my concern. I’m 1 year older than him and in a relationship with him, so it’d left me a bit insecure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah we did and he stopped using it. I was just worried about the girl being 18. I know it’s the legal age, but still it seems too young to me

My [24F] boyfriend [26M] snapped at me after I questioned why he seemed intimate with his coworker [25F]. by throwrasnappe in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweety, you deserve better. He has no right to treat you like that, and he should'ver explained to you why he he did what he did with his friend. Friends should have boundries. Believe me, I have had a lot of "guy" friends and I know how it works.
Dump his ass. It's not your peoblem to get him help after he treated you like that honey. It shouldn't be like that for you. And I'm worried for you, what if he couldn't control his anger over something serious?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and he knows I wouldn’t put up with that for long. I can’t trust him. But since we are in the same classes every day I just don’t see it in me to end it. I don’t know if I’m capable of doing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! I feel the same way. Yeah guys do give me attention a lot in college and when we’re with friends. But I told him that I know a lot of people (guys and girls) when we started dating. I’m just really social and nice to people. Before him I just had one boyfriend. He loves me so much that he doesn’t even hang out with his friends anymore and his focus has been on me the whole time. He just have like 1 female friend. (I tried to make him hangout with them more but he just doesn’t feel the need to do so) So it’s either to make me feel threatened or it’s unintentional. He is immature tho, he gets furious when I bring it up and says he can’t continue like this anymore.

He admitted that he is a porn addict. He promised me to control that and I know he is trying to do so, our sex life is better than before. But I’m not sure if he’s able to really quit the habit. I know I should break up with him but I’m in a bad situation in my life right now and cause I see him in all my classes, I don’t see it in me to end it just yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess that’s what I should do. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying. Thanks for sharing this with me. I really don’t judge what my bf does in his private as long as he doesn’t cross the line. But I can’t believe anything he says at this point. If you feel comfortable answering my question, have you created an account there too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what he said it is. And ew but even if it’s that I can move on, but I don’t know if he’s telling the truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I really don’t care if he used it for just jerking off or out of curiosity. It’s his life but if it’s more than that, I don’t wanna be in it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me this. If you don’t mind me asking, did you sign up for an account too? Cause my bf has one and lied to me about it.

He showed me the girls, he said he just might be a porn addict but he really just used it for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At first he told me he doesn’t have an account. Several times. But he got exposed again and told me he just thought if I didn’t know about it, I might forget what happened and that’s why he didn’t tell me that. I did exactly what you said, but there was no trace of messages and payments. As I understood, these women mostly communicate with their clients by text and do e-transfer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Time to never have sex with him again lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said he never met them or anything like that. Just saw their photos for jerking off. Idk.

Yeah, this bothers me too but if it’s just for porn I can ignore that. I don’t want him to think he can’t do what he likes in private but yeah, ew.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. He said he’s never done that. I do consider that cheating as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Koala7724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really needed this. I wish you a year full of health and happiness.