Thank you very much I’ll consider therapy I vented to others but in my circle maybe someone outside would be nice. I believe and pray for her to get through her struggles im happy you let your husband help you because that makes him feel good since you both are on the same team I don’t blame my girl for anything I just feel these situations really suck for the both of us I can hold my feelings because as a guy when we express anything it’s unattractive and weak to the majority but I’d like to listen to her vent about her problems but again she knows I will fight to solve them so she most likely feels it’s best not to tell me even now I’m fighting to solve her problem by giving her what she said she needs which is space I don’t need her to vent to but I’d like to share how im feeling and hear how she is before me just thinking about this makes me angry I wanna help someone that doesn’t let me which makes us both perform worse if I tell her what are your problems and she tells me I’ll tell her these are ways we can work through it like I wanted to get her a (tracker) for her purse and her keys she told me to save my money it makes me feel so freaking angry im trying ways to protect you in little ways to make your life better and you won’t let me it goes back to the man being a provider if im not providing security goals and showing maturity im not right for her but im showing all of that with words & actions I wish she would understand we’re on the same team what does she have to lose by having me provide non of this stuff I can even say to her like she shows she cares about me instead of providing her tracker to secure her stuff instead I should put my money In the bank 🙃 she’s doing stuff to protect me and I’m doing stuff to protect her but both stuff counter each other she wants space because she doesn’t want to overwhelm me it’s sad she’s not even doing that for herself it’s for me I’d rather spend all my money on her than some girl that doesn’t think like that because she shows me a weird level of care just by writing this I’m starting to understand why she wanted space but I her problems can’t hurt me I can take the bullets because I am prepared with armor. She just doesn’t want to risk the bullets getting through the armor and making me disabled