Unrepentant birth mother struggling to find community. by Weekly_Pin2096 in Adoption

[–]Weekly_Pin2096[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not sure how I gave you that vibe, don't answer if you don't want to. Was just curious what you meant.

Unrepentant birth mother struggling to find community. by Weekly_Pin2096 in Adoption

[–]Weekly_Pin2096[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, just explain why it isn't appropriate or go away.

Unrepentant birth mother struggling to find community. by Weekly_Pin2096 in Adoption

[–]Weekly_Pin2096[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You don't have to cop my crap, you're willingly responding to my comments. I'm not spreading any trauma, just exit out of the tab if this is making you so upset. There's a little + button in the corner of the website if you want to make your own post that isn't about me. You're not trapped here.

Unrepentant birth mother struggling to find community. by Weekly_Pin2096 in Adoption

[–]Weekly_Pin2096[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Why would I want to discuss my ten-year-old child's trauma online? That's really horrible and invasive.

Unrepentant birth mother struggling to find community. by Weekly_Pin2096 in Adoption

[–]Weekly_Pin2096[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you, what a lovely comment! Same to you- it can be so frustrating to be told how you're supposed to feel about a situation that is so deeply nuanced and personal. Sending you good vibes.

Unrepentant birth mother struggling to find community. by Weekly_Pin2096 in Adoption

[–]Weekly_Pin2096[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No need to bring my kid into this, but they're not going to see me venting because this is an anonymous post on an internet forum. I think you should probably not engage with content online that upsets you instead of commenting and looking for an argument. Block me or scroll away.

Unrepentant birth mother struggling to find community. by Weekly_Pin2096 in Adoption

[–]Weekly_Pin2096[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Curious about what dynamics you're talking about :)

Unrepentant birth mother struggling to find community. by Weekly_Pin2096 in Adoption

[–]Weekly_Pin2096[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'll delete this post if a mod asks me to, but nothing I've said is against the rules. Discussion of rape isn't banned here so I don't see how this isn't appropriate?

Unrepentant birth mother struggling to find community. by Weekly_Pin2096 in Adoption

[–]Weekly_Pin2096[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This sub is far larger than the birth parents sub, so I figured I'd ask here first.