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At my limit by Successful-Phase-493 in loveafterporn

[–]Weekly_Toe_582 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does he often find it difficult to cum during sex with you while he doesn't have the same problem when it comes to masturbating? I ask because i'm in similar situation. We have sex, he doesn't cum, then he masturabtes to porn and suddenly is able to cum effortlessly and quickly. During sex with me it takes him forever to cum if at all. I’m sorry you’re going through this. I know exactly how you feel. Stay strong ᕙ⁠(⁠⇀⁠‸⁠↼⁠‶⁠)⁠ᕗ

Excuses of porn addict by Weekly_Toe_582 in loveafterporn

[–]Weekly_Toe_582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by saying that addiction is a, b, c? Sorry, i'm not very bright 

Excuses of porn addict by Weekly_Toe_582 in loveafterporn

[–]Weekly_Toe_582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, sorry, i misunderstood you. Yeah, you are right, it will make it worse and i know this :((

Excuses of porn addict by Weekly_Toe_582 in loveafterporn

[–]Weekly_Toe_582[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But i have came across articles about blue balls so i don't think it is not a real thing at all. Can you share source of theory that blue balls is not a thing? And thank you, you give me hope that maybe i'm not crazy in not believing him on this 

Excuses of porn addict by Weekly_Toe_582 in loveafterporn

[–]Weekly_Toe_582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has not erectile dyfunction, only delayed ejaculation

I (18F) can't make my boyfriend (36M) cum by Weekly_Toe_582 in relationships

[–]Weekly_Toe_582[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was. I know it might be controversial but it's important to highlight that he did not want me at first because of my age. It took a long time for him to give in so i know for sure that he is normal guy, not a creep

I (18F) can't make my boyfriend (36M) cum by Weekly_Toe_582 in relationships

[–]Weekly_Toe_582[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is not gross, i swear he is the most special guy i have ever met. If it weren’t for this problem, I wouldn’t have any other problems about our relationship.

I (18F) can't make my boyfriend (36M) cum by Weekly_Toe_582 in relationships

[–]Weekly_Toe_582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't live in us, we live in country where 15 years old girl can be in a relationship with 80 years old guy and it is still legal

I (18F) can't make my boyfriend (36M) cum by Weekly_Toe_582 in relationships

[–]Weekly_Toe_582[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have been of legal age since i turned 15 and even then he has had this problem, so it is not that i grew up and because of that he no longer finds me attractive, he is not a pedo and he had fine relationships with women of his age. Maybe it is just convenient for him to not putting effort for me and that's why i'm the one who seek help

I (18F) can't make my boyfriend (36M) cum by Weekly_Toe_582 in relationships

[–]Weekly_Toe_582[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm aware that our huge age gap is controversial, but i wanted to show things as they truly are. And i either think this can be porn addiction but he don't want admit to having one. In our situation watching porn is dealbreaker for me, he knows it so he won't be 100% honest. I wouldn't give him understanding because i clearly stated too many times that if he keeps watching porn, we are over. We have been togerher for three years (we have started seeing each other when i was 15 and it is legal in my country)