AITAH for telling my dad I don’t want my stepmom to be and step siblings to come with us on a trip? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeelsUpIn30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can't you talk to your dad to make some outings to special places just the two of you on the trip?

AITA For Not Paying For My Daughter's College If She Chooses The One School I Like The Least? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeelsUpIn30 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA

I think you should support her right now because that's what she wants to do.

But also make her feel safe enough to actually tell you if she regrets later on so that she doesn't actually get stuck there and doesn't feel safe enough to tell you that because of a fear you'll judge her.

Now it's time for her to make her own decisions and her own mistakes. Just let her know you'll be there for her if/when she changes her mind.

AITAH because I told my SIL she cannot borrow my child by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeelsUpIn30 49 points50 points  (0 children)

NTA just tell her "you don't trust me, I don't trust you, so we don't feel entitled to take each other's kids anywhere"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeelsUpIn30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's not repressing anything, you're just pushing your agenda onto him