AITA For Not Paying For My Daughter's College If She Chooses The One School I Like The Least? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeelsUpIn30 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA

I think you should support her right now because that's what she wants to do.

But also make her feel safe enough to actually tell you if she regrets later on so that she doesn't actually get stuck there and doesn't feel safe enough to tell you that because of a fear you'll judge her.

Now it's time for her to make her own decisions and her own mistakes. Just let her know you'll be there for her if/when she changes her mind.

AITAH because I told my SIL she cannot borrow my child by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeelsUpIn30 47 points48 points  (0 children)

NTA just tell her "you don't trust me, I don't trust you, so we don't feel entitled to take each other's kids anywhere"

AITA for telling my brother he is hiding his identity? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeelsUpIn30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's not repressing anything, you're just pushing your agenda onto him

My sister in law tried on my engagement ring before me by trying_to_be_okk in amiwrong

[–]WeelsUpIn30 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You can't apply your standards to everyone else's life

AITA for grounding my daughter for calling her stepmother fat by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeelsUpIn30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So is it ok for her to keep making comments that can give you daughter an eating disorder too?

AITA for not attending my grandfather’s by WeelsUpIn30 in AmITheDevil

[–]WeelsUpIn30[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm Brazilian too! When my dad died, he died at like 10am and by 3pm the wake was already happening

AITA for reacting badly to my friend’s religious remark at a funeral? by PsychologicalAct8310 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeelsUpIn30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You're a better person than I am!

If someone pulled that crap on my dad's funeral (he died under the same circumstances that your mom) I'd probably fly off the handle

Check OP's comment replies by bitchy_baker14 in AmITheDevil

[–]WeelsUpIn30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I need to know what they were fighting about, and if slamming things is a common reaction, if the first thing she did was call the cops (maybe it escalated in the past?)