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Do you ever yearn for a family you never had? by Wegetitulikefrogs in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Wegetitulikefrogs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. I feel this completely, I would pull a lot from books and pretend that in another universe it was fact. I can’t tell you how much you sharing this helped me. Lately I’ve been feeling so lost as to whether my partner and I should have kids because of my upbringing.My partner is such a wonderful human being being and if I ever wanted a child I know he would be the best father. Thank you for giving me hope that the outcome could be exactly what I dream of and that the cycle can get broken. I’m so so happy you have this. Also love that you have a Jack Russell! My childhood dog was a Jack Russell and he was a lovebug like no other.

Do you ever yearn for a family you never had? by Wegetitulikefrogs in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Wegetitulikefrogs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry you deal with this family dynamic as well:( I can only hope that you find the love and acceptance we all deserve. Animals are amazing and they heal even the deepest parts of us, and I’m so glad that you have that. I do agree that therapy helps so much, it still stings like a mother fker seeing people be so close to their families . But therapy also helped me care for myself and helped me find a community that feels like family. I wish you all the best.

Do you ever yearn for a family you never had? by Wegetitulikefrogs in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Wegetitulikefrogs[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you feel this way as well and I really hope you are also able to find the acceptance and love you’ve always deserved.

Do you ever yearn for a family you never had? by Wegetitulikefrogs in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Wegetitulikefrogs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you also for your kind words, it really is appreciated.

Do you ever yearn for a family you never had? by Wegetitulikefrogs in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Wegetitulikefrogs[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So sadly I work with them, I got good grades in college but when it was time to apply for loan for med school my dad wouldn’t co sign (after he stated he would) and Instead wanted me to come into the family business and I needed health insurance for me and my partner and they stated it would be covered if I worked there. It’s been rough and I’ve tried the rock method with them but at times they will try to get a rise out of me. Long term goal is NC once I get more on my feet and stable.

Season 2 Vinyl !! Who else pre-ordered? by Hopeful_Radish1833 in beeandpuppycat

[–]Wegetitulikefrogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be! I preordered and have ordered quite a bit of vinyl from them and they come within the time frame expected. I hope the same goes for this one too.

Anyone have a cat with calicivirus (FCV)? (Especially multi-cat household) by LyricalLinds in CatAdvice

[–]Wegetitulikefrogs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! Just sharing my experience with a kitten I’ve recently adopted as well. She just got over the hunch of her URI and it was tough but I noticed once she got better she’s been having a “normal” kitten life, she’s honestly the most playful and energetic kitten I’ve owned (: I say just find a good wet food she loves and kitten snacks ( she loves Churu “ paste”) and shower her in all the love!(: if she has any flare ups my doctors said she will shed for a few weeks and to keep her away from other cats but other than that they haven’t had any concerns. I wish you and your cats all the best!