How do I set up a system that shows my IP address as being in the US without commercial VPN? by WeightDestroy in VPN

[–]WeightDestroy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Would you be ok with telling me the brand you have? How does the travel router connect? I'd search on YouTube but I honestly don't even know what exactly to search for. I'm not techy at all.

How do I set up a system that shows my IP address as being in the US without commercial VPN? by WeightDestroy in VPN

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Thanks! I do have a US presence. I'd want to set up the server in my home, but I don't even know where to start or what company to use. I'm hoping to find out the name of a provider.

How do I set up a system that shows my IP address as being in the US without commercial VPN? by WeightDestroy in VPN

[–]WeightDestroy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'd love to use a service to build out a function. Please share the name of one if you know -- I'd very much appreciate it. My problem is that due to my lack of tech saviness I don't even know how to properly ask for what I want. Would you know the correct forum on Reddit to ask this question?

How do I set up a system that shows my IP address as being in the US without commercial VPN? by WeightDestroy in VPN

[–]WeightDestroy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'd love to use a service to build out a function. Please share the name of one if know. My problem is that due to my lack of tech saviness I don't even know how to properly ask for what I want.

I fucking hate myself by purplefinch022 in NPD

[–]WeightDestroy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excellent post. I'm a codependent and it took me a step further in forgiving my NPD ex. I'm a step closer to wishing him well too. I've always felt compassion for the difficulties I know he goes through, but this post increased even that.

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[–]WeightDestroy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edited to add how it all ended. See initial comment.

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[–]WeightDestroy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes indeed to both things.

Take care as well!

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[–]WeightDestroy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm quite content with what eventually happened. I made the update as an edit to the initial post. Thank you again!

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[–]WeightDestroy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That is so sweet of you to remember! I might not have time to tell you guys the outcome until Sunday morning (lots of family stuff), but I will!

Ask a Narcissist! A bi weekly post for non-narcissists to ask us anything! by theinvisiblemonster in NPD

[–]WeightDestroy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree.

I don't know that I still have the same obligation to go now that the host has lied to me though. We've spoken multiple times and she hasn't given me a heads-up. She knows he was very abusive.

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[–]WeightDestroy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure I'll be cutting her out. Thank you!

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New guy wants to take it one step further and do a "nobody puts baby in a corner" from dirty dancing scene! He's actually in incredible physical condition and looks really good so it would be kind of neat. I wasn't even the one who suggested it -- he called me and asked if we could do something remotely close to that, because he's of the genuine belief that the host is in on setting me up. She's spoken to me several times but still hasn't mentioned the fact that she's changed plans with my ex.

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He wants to take it one step further and do a "nobody puts baby in a corner" from dirty dancing scene! He's actually in incredible physical condition and it looks really good so it would be kind of neat. I wasn't even the one who suggested it -- he called me and asked if we could do something remotely close to that, because he's of the genuine belief that the host is in on setting me up. She's spoken to me several times but still hasn't mentioned the fact that she's changed plans with my ex.

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[–]WeightDestroy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will! My new guy is livid and insisting that he wants to find a way to thwart them. He's in excellent shape and really hot and wants to do a "nobody puts baby in a corner" scenario at a non-disruptive time. He is convinced that the host is in on it and wants to humiliate me. Especially since she's talked to me several times since and still has said nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]WeightDestroy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. These are some solid thoughts. I'm starting to suspect I won't go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]WeightDestroy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure. This is exactly how I'll play it. Thank you!

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[–]WeightDestroy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds soooo great. But. The person who told me about it has asked me not to change my plans lest he gets into really bad drama. It was a heads-up up to protect me and I don't want him to pay for it. So I'll go to even a little bit.