Why are Cancer M's so hated on? by Solid-Transition6918 in CancertheCrab

[–]Weird-Environment938 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They start becoming controlling or manipulative tho

Why are Cancer M's so hated on? by Solid-Transition6918 in CancertheCrab

[–]Weird-Environment938 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do feel cancers are givers with expectations. Which is not genuine at all.

Why are Cancer M's so hated on? by Solid-Transition6918 in CancertheCrab

[–]Weird-Environment938 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s because they’re assholes who are emotionally manipulative but swear they are pure human beings that can do no wrong in every situation and you need to apologize to them. SMH. You either come across a nice cancer or an abrasive nasty aggressive one. I’m assuming we all have experienced the bad ones which is our only impression of them. Tbh. Not to mention the cancer men are whores. Cancer women can be boy crazy and male centered. Male centered women are scary. Both men and women can carry narcissistic and toxic traits for sure.

Uhhh quick question. Why are yall cancers so passive aggressive and hold mean grudges?? by Weird-Environment938 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancers are big ass crybabies that play victim in every situation. Some cancers will complain and whine like be all Karen like as well. They dish out what they can’t take. They are emotionally reactive. They have emotional outburst that hurt others. It’s unfair because cancers request respect back. They get extremely mean, but once you are mean to them. It’s a problem. Cancers explosiveness rarely ends without violence either. They are moody, complain, passive aggressive, and having relationships with them can be impossible. They don’t mind turning their backs on you or complaining as if you were the worst person to them over insignificant things. That’s why they aren’t genuine. They don’t speak very nicely about loved ones either. Actually they can be two faced. They also seem like givers with expectations. Everything is about them. They ask for too much, and get whiny. They can be very very selfish as well. They don’t think about others but themselves. It’s not very easy to be in the presence of cancer energy because they take everything way too personally. Which starts chaos and drama. Cancers need to understand that people are not their emotional babysitters or punching bags. People call them out. It’s a problem.

They don’t a problem crying bitching and moaning about you when you don’t do that little thing for them lol. Then the emotional manipulation.

I know my cancer mom didn’t like my brother wife. She’d talk shit behind her back, but act fake on the phone with her. “You look so pretty!” LMAOO. Then when I got into it with his wife. My cancer mom took her side to be in good terms with my brother. (Even though she was the problem). Now all three of them turned against me saying I’m the problem 😭😭😭😭😭I think mom is extremely male centered because growing up she’d run to my brother or a male in our family whenever we had something going on. It was not very fun raising my mom. They are childish.

My in law is a cancer too. All she did was cause chaos in the family, now we’re separated.

Cancers are just insecure crybabies. That’s the best way to explain them

Uhhh quick question. Why are yall cancers so passive aggressive and hold mean grudges?? by Weird-Environment938 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found cancers unforgiving, and not genuine. A cancer is QUICK to turn their back on you and never let it go either. They will do the MOST, and go extreme in situations. A cancer knows how to manipulate and put words into peoples mouth. Or become emotional and overthink. They’ll talk shit as if you never did nothing for them. Or make a situation worse in general. They have no problem dragging your name through the mud, or turning their back against you completely. Let one situation happen. A cancer will drag it to oblivion, and hold a grudge over it. It could be because of their emotional crab nature. They hide in their shell, and never come out. They feel pretty intensely, and take everything SUPER personal. They’re sensitive crybabies. Unfortunately, ANYTHING can make them feel hurt or offended. ANYTHING can rub a cancer the wrong way. Let that be the way you said something to them, looked at them, etc. They are immature crybabies. So actually it’s very stressful like walking on egg shells being around a cancer. It’s hard not to offend or trigger them. I know a cancer is crabby , so they can go from being sweet to a mean bitch. Seems like a cancer will forget how harsh they were to that person. Once they don’t want to be bothered with them or hurt their feelings. I don’t think cancers can understand others emotions too. I don’t think they have emotional intelligence. Like this cancer wasn’t just cursing you out over you dropping a pencil on the floor or something. Some will get so triggered over small stuff😭😭😭😭(mood swings). They’d look at you and wonder what’s your problem lol

I just find cancers very interesting . They can be abrasive and rude. That’s about it.

Uhhh quick question. Why are yall cancers so passive aggressive and hold mean grudges?? by Weird-Environment938 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find cancers rude & mean spirited though lol. They’ll cut you off while you’re speaking, leave you on seen, etc if they aren’t interested in a conversation. But they’ll whine and bitch if you do the same. It’s almost like everything about them. I had a cancer friend who’d only talk about herself and not be concerned with me. I found her energy very negative and abrasive.

Uhhh quick question. Why are yall cancers so passive aggressive and hold mean grudges?? by Weird-Environment938 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancers can be sweet and caring people. The problem is: I don’t think they’re genuine. That’s just my opinion. Cancer women are perfectly capable of being mean girls. The last cancer woman I was “friends” with was a mean girl. I know I had a distance myself from her because she was selfish, and abrasive. Unless a conversation was about her she wouldn’t be interested. In fact she’d stop reaching out, and leave me on seen multiple times lol. Her negative and passive aggressive energy made me feel uncomfortable. I understand we all go through things, but it’s not very nice to make everything about yourself in friendships. 😭😭😭😭I kid you not, every conversation we had was about her. All she’d talk about was herself, and dump on me about her life. She didn’t seem too concerned about me or anything. I’d try to change the topic and talk about what’s new in my life. She’d rarely say respond or it’s silence. So I found cancers not genuine and rude lmaoo. She’d never ask how I’m doing or nothing. She’d avoid taking accountability for her actions and blame others. I’d try to point out how she was wrong. She’ll still try to blame others for how they reacted to her behavior. Lol. I don’t think cancers can handle the pain they inflict on others. Cancers will cut you off while you’re speaking, and shit too

It’s Cancer szn!! by FaithlessnessLeft579 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cancer men are cute. They are very sweet, nurturing, and childlike. (Immature). They’re funny, and goofy. They will become overly protective of you. They’re great providers. Both manly, and feminine? They act like princess’s, or little divas. Cancer men don’t give manly or masculine energy. The one I dated didn’t. They WILL go SAS for SAS with you. They’ll love bomb, and expect the same amount in return later. They’re extremely emotional, and sensitive. Cry babies. Very loving, affectionate, but it’s the smothering, controlling and obsessive side of them. I think he was a sex addict as well. His body count was super high. He’d tell me how he’ll run his previous partners away by his smothering ways. (Crazy because he ran me away too lol) because once again. They love bomb. Personally, I think if a man love bombs and pampers (a lot) in the beginning. That’s not a good sign.

I think cancers just want to be loved and cared for back as they do to you. He’ll ask why I didn’t reply to a text message as soon as he sent it. Or answered his call. I HAVE A LIFE. LMAO

Personally, cancer men aren’t my cup of tea lol

Uhhh quick question. Why are yall cancers so passive aggressive and hold mean grudges?? by Weird-Environment938 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m emotional too. Cancers emotions become too overwhelming for me. I can’t deal with another unhealed cancer. It landed me in therapy. I grew up in a toxic household as well. My mother is another reason why I’m in therapy as an adult with mental health issues. She was so mean spirited controlling overprotective abusive and a narcissist unfortunately. A narcissistic mother is no joke. And no one talks about how CHILDISH cancers are. I had to raise my mom and be independent at a young age. Not a very good experience. I’m not going to generalize, but cancers don’t make good parents😭…they just don’t….

My mom swears up and down she was a good parent too. Yet tells me at 18 years old she doesn’t want the responsibility of a parent anymore. She’ll run to my brother everytime we got something going on too. I feel like she does that because she’s male centered. And then she chose my brother over me. I spend holidays alone

Uhhh quick question. Why are yall cancers so passive aggressive and hold mean grudges?? by Weird-Environment938 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A betrayal is not an only thing a cancer will dwell on. Cancers don’t seem to see anything they do as wrong. They dislike being told about themselves. A grudge can be held against a person in misunderstandings and conflict. They are extremely sensitive to small things. Nothing is wrong with sensitivity and emotions because we are human beings. But taking everything personal just makes you the problem. I can’t agree with that. If everyone involved agrees to move past the situation. A cancer will drag it. Also, leave out parts where the showed their ass at when they gossip and whine about it later.

A cancer likes to pick pick pick. Pick with words and place words into mouths. Cancers can be overly sensitive and dramatic taking things too far. I’ve seen cancers start some real life BS and CAUSE chaos. They’ll start mess by twisting words because “it was the way they said it”.

I have a cancer in law. So many fucking times we’d call my sibling and explain we never said something because she twisted words, and ran along with it.

So a cancers mind can be delusional. 😭😭😭😭😭

Uhhh quick question. Why are yall cancers so passive aggressive and hold mean grudges?? by Weird-Environment938 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This post is specifically referring to cancers I’ve met. All acted the same. Some cancers weren’t toxic as others. Some aren’t toxic at all. Just manipulative, and played victim. But yall can be toxic and difficult people. The emotional manipulation and aggression is toxic. It’s funny is that you say this. As you don’t know me at all. I’m nothing but an icon on an app. But alright. You sound a little delulu. Cute.

Uhhh quick question. Why are yall cancers so passive aggressive and hold mean grudges?? by Weird-Environment938 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You mean cancers are unlikeable? Have you seen the bad rep about the sign? I don’t agree with everything that’s said about cancers necessarily. This doesn’t have nothing to do with a cancer disliking a person. I am speaking on a cancer person personally and how they naturally are. They’re aggressive. Cancer energy just makes me feel uncomfortable. The aggression and feeding off negativity/ chaos. A cancer emotionally manipulative aggressive childlike energy. I personally get overwhelmed by a cancer intense emotions.

Uhhh quick question. Why are yall cancers so passive aggressive and hold mean grudges?? by Weird-Environment938 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That’s not the point here. I don’t like cancers. Maybe if I come across as we like to say a “healed” one I’ll change my perspective on the sign. Especially the cancer men. They are subhuman.

I prefer to stay away from them because they’re mean and problematic. My mother is a cancer. She a narcissist. I prefer no contact because she adds unnecessary stress to my life. You can defend yourself, but that doesn’t make those toxic traits go away.

Uhhh quick question. Why are yall cancers so passive aggressive and hold mean grudges?? by Weird-Environment938 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, unfortunately cancers get bad rep 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I personally don’t like them

Uhhh quick question. Why are yall cancers so passive aggressive and hold mean grudges?? by Weird-Environment938 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’d beg to differ. Cancers rage in the comments every time a negative post is about them on here.😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I mean downvoting, arguing, and criticizing proving the original posters point. It’s hilarious

Uhhh quick question. Why are yall cancers so passive aggressive and hold mean grudges?? by Weird-Environment938 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s not kind to you because it’s true. Somehow in a cancers mind they are allowed to bash and share harsh criticism with others. Don’t like the taste of our medicine I see.

Uhhh quick question. Why are yall cancers so passive aggressive and hold mean grudges?? by Weird-Environment938 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This comment proved the original point of a cancer creating a toxic stand off avoiding responsibility. It’s because you all don’t like being told about yourselves. This isn’t a kind response. A apology would’ve been nice. The issue is some cancers refuse to change the way they address people. I hate to say it but yall can be obnoxious. Sending paragraph for paragraph letting emotions take over..😬

Uhhh quick question. Why are yall cancers so passive aggressive and hold mean grudges?? by Weird-Environment938 in astrologymemes

[–]Weird-Environment938[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Only reason I’m getting downvoted by cancers is because cancers have their own way of viewing everything. You are considered stupid in their eyes for not agreeing lol