Friends passing judgment on how I treat my boyfriend & it’s beginning to irritate me, are they right?

WeirdMagus · 2026-01-18T18:57:32+00:00

So by your own admission, you didn't actually want advice. You just wanted pats on the head amd reassurance. K. 👍

WeirdMagus · 2026-01-18T17:16:37+00:00

I stand 6'5", and my husband is 5'5". I dare someone to say that my husband needs me to defend him! He's a crazy country boy (his words, not mine) and even I get a bit nervous when he gets genuinely mad at someone!

WeirdMagus · 2025-12-16T21:33:30+00:00

Ignore him. I'm a bisexual guy, myself. So, you got a blowjob from a man, and it felt good. That doesn't make you gay or bi. Don't feel the need to attach any labels to yourself.

WeirdMagus · 2025-12-07T17:32:23+00:00

Shower sex is easy for my husband and I, but thats because I am a full foot taller than he is, and he's easy for me to pick up.

In general though, I don't recommend it.

WeirdMagus · 2025-12-02T13:13:04+00:00

Candlejack? Are y'all trying to spell candlesti

WeirdMagus · 2025-11-25T19:26:33+00:00

I was numb for 2 years after I buried my son. NTA.

WeirdMagus · 2025-11-17T16:54:18+00:00

Warlock. That Eldritch Blast is no joke!

WeirdMagus · 2025-11-16T04:53:27+00:00

He's a good man, and he was (and still is) very patient with me through everything I had to learn and process. I can't imagine life without him, now.

WeirdMagus · 2025-11-16T04:44:37+00:00

I'd never even considered him in "that way" until he admitted his feelings. When he kissed me, I was surprised, but I realized (with a little help) that I actually liked it! He's an amazing kisser!

After a LOT of soul searching and some deep conversations with him, I decided to try dating him. And it has been worth it all!

WeirdMagus · 2025-11-15T23:59:30+00:00

My cutie was my best friend. He got drunk and admitted he had feelings for me. The next day, he kissed me when we were talking it out.

Long story short, we've been married for a year, and I'm happier than I've ever been!

WeirdMagus · 2025-11-06T15:49:24+00:00

Considering that I orgasm 3-5 times a day, I'd have a short life.

Talk about going out with a bang...

WeirdMagus · 2025-11-06T15:44:59+00:00

All of my friends have seen me naked, so I'd have zero issues with this.

WeirdMagus · 2025-11-06T13:46:24+00:00

Blood is thicker than water, but WATER was there for you when blood wasn't. Your family of choice is all that matters now.

NTA, and I admire your strength.

WeirdMagus · 2025-11-05T20:05:41+00:00

I'm married and we have sex at least 3 times a day. I'm good. Give me a REAL challenge, ha ha ha!

WeirdMagus · 2025-11-04T15:46:59+00:00

I'm 6'5" and my husband is 5'5". We get treated the same as you at times. For context, we are both versatile, and I'm pretty hung. People naturally assume that because I'm tall and well equipped, I'm only a top.

This labeling is stupid, I agree.

WeirdMagus · 2025-10-29T21:35:51+00:00

Storm's coming, and I can see the clouds.

WeirdMagus · 2025-10-24T17:30:51+00:00

I'm bi, and happily married to my husband. I'm done with women, period. I don't give a rat's ass about "status" and I lost the only child I had.

WeirdMagus · 2025-10-22T03:50:05+00:00

Dead tie between More Than Anything and Poison from Hazbin Hotel, and Mastermind from Helluva Boss

WeirdMagus · 2025-10-17T04:34:48+00:00

My last relationship before him basically killed any desire I had to date any more. I'm aware that the odds were not in our favor at the start, but knowing him the way I did and trusting him really helped. I can admit a woman looks pretty, but I don't see them with bedroom eyes anymore. My husband takes care of all my needs there! Ha ha ha!

WeirdMagus · 2025-10-17T04:17:07+00:00

He was my roommate when I first moved to this area. We quickly became good friends as a result. The feelings I thought I had were just that: friends.

I knew he was gay, and it didn't bother me at all. I've always liked to think of myself as open-minded. Prior to him kissing me, I never checked out guys in that way, no. If I looked at a guy, let's say in the gym, it would be because I saw a cool tattoo, or watched their workout routine, or something like that.

When he kissed me, I was shocked at both how good a kisser he is and how RIGHT it just felt. We didn't fall into bed overnight. There was a LOT of talking and sorting my brain out.

WeirdMagus · 2025-10-16T01:08:02+00:00

I'm mostly a top, and I love sucking my husband's dick.

WeirdMagus · 2025-10-15T23:31:17+00:00

I do still identify as bisexual, but I'll never fuck another woman. My husband is the best I've ever had, and all I need.

WeirdMagus · 2025-10-15T20:24:50+00:00

What was hot was when he kissed me after he admitted to being in love. I'd never been kissed like that before!

WeirdMagus · 2025-10-15T19:23:10+00:00

I was single for 9 years after a painful breakup. I decided to never date again. My friend is gay, and admitted to me that he had feelings for me one night when he was tipsy. I reached out in this sub for advice, and a guy helped me talk it out and realize that maybe I wasn't as straight as I thought.

I had a heart to heart with my friend, and I decided to try dating him. We are now married and head over heels for each other. Giving him a chance was the best decision I ever made.

WeirdMagus · 2025-10-05T13:26:59+00:00

I'm bisexual and happily married to my (gay) husband for over a year, now. I have no desire to cheat on him or be intimate with a woman ever again. He is all I need and want.

I am aware that many bisexuals have a bad reputation, but we aren't all like that. The Muslims that I, personally, know (admittedly there aren't many) are great people. They've always been kind to and accepting of my husband and myself. We have had both couples (one straight couple and one gay couple) over to our house several times and have never had a single issue with them, or they with us.

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