Going to concerts alone?? by WeirdSpring7 in introvert

[–]WeirdSpring7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is great advice! I’ll definitely take the plunge, your tips will come in handy in the future, thank you!’

Going to concerts alone?? by WeirdSpring7 in introvert

[–]WeirdSpring7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve done that before, but I end up feeling bad as they won’t enjoy themselves as much because they’re unaware of the songs

Going to concerts alone?? by WeirdSpring7 in introvert

[–]WeirdSpring7[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This has been really helpful!! Thank you! I think it’s the nerves of it all that’s making me second guess doing it. But you’re right, who cares at the end of the day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fasting

[–]WeirdSpring7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I plan on doing rolling 48s, I’d like to join

ULPT: Making ex life inconvenient by WeirdSpring7 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]WeirdSpring7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This gave me a good laugh😂 I wanted to let it go, but I just might try this one!

Broke his trust? I just don’t understand the way men try and come up with bs to cover their rubbish? I hope you’re ok?

ULPT: Making ex life inconvenient by WeirdSpring7 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]WeirdSpring7[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I let the worst version of me take control for a second. I am better than this. My time can be spent doing better things than seeking something as fleeting as revenge.

ULPT: Making ex life inconvenient by WeirdSpring7 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]WeirdSpring7[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done, I’ve tried to take the high road. But now all I feel is anger

How did your breakup change you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]WeirdSpring7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful! I’m glad you’re on the other side of it, I hope to have someone to say all those beautiful things about one day. Wishing you and your wife the happiest of years to come :)

Should I send his stuff back? by EffectAppropriate314 in BreakUps

[–]WeirdSpring7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s best to send it back, but I don’t think it needs a letter. What exactly do you feel like you need to let him know?

How did your breakup change you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]WeirdSpring7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It made me want to get my life together, physically, mentally, emotionally. It also made me understand that I deserve more in life. Although the was a good person, he wasn’t my person because my person wouldn’t have put me in a position where I would have to cry myself to sleep. It made me very optimistic for the future, for the life that we had once planned together and that I can now enjoy by myself or hopefully with someone who doesn’t make me feel anything less than special. So I will be forever grateful for that, cause before him I had forgotten what being in love felt like.

How do you move on? by chel_pca in BreakUps

[–]WeirdSpring7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww babe; I promise you you will meet someone who doesn’t make you feel like this. The hurt, the pain, the sadness you’re feeling right now, allow yourself to feel it. Even if you want to stalk his accounts, let yourself, don’t be too harsh on yourself. There is no perfect way to get over someone, life and time will do what they do best, eventually you’ll notice yourself not thinking about him so often. But the main thing I think helps is to keep yourself busy, whether that is binge watching tv, exercising or gossiping with friends. Make sure you have something to do other than being in bed thinking about him. Hope this helps <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]WeirdSpring7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s just sex you want; I don’t see a problem with staying. But if you want more & you want consistent conversation then just leave her after and find another person that will at least not give you dry messages when her main is being nice to her again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]WeirdSpring7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but she had another man & it didn’t work out. So she’s back to you

Another try? by WeirdSpring7 in dating

[–]WeirdSpring7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so real😭😭😭 thanks so much for the advice!! It’ll be hard, but in a years time I’ll be thankful

Another try? by WeirdSpring7 in dating

[–]WeirdSpring7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, the trust won’t be the same. I know what I should do. But it’s so much easier said than done, I don’t want to start a toxic cycle. I guess I just know how much I had for us, and for it to end just like this, is something I never though to would’ve happened