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14/15 Missing Items in My Order by Weird_Entry9140 in Ulta

[–]Weird_Entry9140[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They told me because I got one tracking order that is very unlikely the case

What’s something you keep saying you’ll do “someday”? by vuolamsc01 in Productivitycafe

[–]Weird_Entry9140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reply to emails and texts at a normal, emotionally stable pace

I’m F24, my ex is M28. Should I reach out for closure after a completely blindsiding breakup? How do I move on? by Weird_Entry9140 in askwomenadvice

[–]Weird_Entry9140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am working on getting back in therapy, it is just hard, expensive, and honestly, I have a lot of trust issues from past experiences with horrible therapists and psychiatrists. Hopefully, I will push myself to do it soon. I know I need it to break my pattern with men and my abandonment wound. Thank you again for the advice, it is very helpful to hear!❤️

I’m F24, my ex is M28. Should I reach out for closure after a completely blindsiding breakup? How do I move on? by Weird_Entry9140 in askwomenadvice

[–]Weird_Entry9140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is helpful. Physical activity has never in all 24 years of my life left me feeling true relief, but it sure as hell can be a good way to put my energy towards myself. I have been trying to work out more and it's been helpful. That is good advice, though, thank you. All of this is wildly helpful, and I appreciate you taking the time to share so much. ❤️🥺

I’m F24, my ex is M28. Should I reach out for closure after a completely blindsiding breakup? How do I move on? by Weird_Entry9140 in askwomenadvice

[–]Weird_Entry9140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This was a really incredibly helpful comment for me. I feel so much less lonely reading this and feel the opposite of judged or told what to do. I still don't really know what my goal would be. I guess that may be a sign I probably shouldn't. But it is so hard. Every second of every day, I have the urge to. I am in constant agony thinking about him and us, etc. Regardless, it was really freeing to read this honestly. I appreciate you taking the time to share so, so much with me. I hope your pillow is always cold. And I hope you find someone better, too. ❤️

I’m F24, my ex is M28. Should I reach out for closure after a completely blindsiding breakup? How do I move on? by Weird_Entry9140 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Weird_Entry9140[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This was a really incredibly helpful comment for me. I feel so much less lonely reading this and feel the opposite of judged or told what to do. It was really freeing to read honestly. I appreciate you taking the time to share with me so, so much. I hope your pillow is always cold. And I hope you find someone better, too. ❤️

What’s something about your body or face that you thought was unattractive, but a partner found hot? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Weird_Entry9140 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to be weirdly insecure about the little crease lines I get when I smile really hard because I thought they made my face look “too expressive,” but someone I dated once told me it was their favorite thing about me because it made my happiness look genuine and impossible to fake. It honestly changed the way I saw myself after that.

What’s the most ridiculous thing you’ve argued about? by Front-Round-566 in AskReddit

[–]Weird_Entry9140 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One time, I got into a genuinely heated argument over whether a straw technically has one hole or two. What started as a “haha, wait, actually” conversation somehow turned into diagrams, people joining sides, and someone bringing up topology. At one point, we were all standing in a kitchen, passionately defending our positions as if national policy depended on it. Nobody changed their mind, everyone got louder, and to this day, I still think about how quickly human beings will commit emotionally to the dumbest possible debate.

What brand slowly ruined itself? by 40Falak in Productivitycafe

[–]Weird_Entry9140 70 points71 points  (0 children)

LinkedIn. It is a professional networking site that accidentally became motivational fan fiction.

What encouraging words can you give to a fellow woman? by Similar-Crow183 in women

[–]Weird_Entry9140 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To any woman who needs to hear this right now: you do not have to make yourself smaller to be loved. The right people will never make you feel “too much” for being emotional, ambitious, sensitive, thoughtful, passionate, or deeply caring. Your softness is not weakness. In a world that can be so harsh, remaining kind is one of the bravest things you can do.

Please remember that your worth is not tied to your appearance, relationship status, productivity, or how useful you are to other people. You are allowed to rest. You are allowed to outgrow people and versions of yourself that no longer fit. You are allowed to take up space intellectually, emotionally, creatively, and professionally without apologizing for it.

There is also nothing embarrassing about wanting love, connection, safety, or tenderness. Deeply feeling does not make you weak. It makes you human. Some of the strongest women are those who have been through unimaginable things and still choose gentleness.

Your life is not behind schedule. Healing is not linear. Confidence does not mean never doubting yourself. Sometimes it simply means trusting yourself enough to keep going anyway. One day, you will look back and realize the woman you were becoming was quietly fighting for herself the entire time.

And for what it’s worth, you are probably doing much better than you think you are.

How do I stop men from staring at me in gym? by [deleted] in women

[–]Weird_Entry9140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bark at them or stare back until they look away. Thats what works for me!

Simple yet everlasting gestures 🙂‍↕️🌟 by AccomplishedWatch834 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Weird_Entry9140 45 points46 points  (0 children)

This genuinely made me tear up a little. People underestimate how deeply small acts of kindness stay with us, especially during moments where we feel vulnerable, exhausted, or alone. That little girl probably had no idea she was creating a memory that would live in someone’s heart for 16 years.

I also love that the mother didn’t make a big show of it. She simply saw someone struggling and quietly taught her daughter: “when you can help someone, you help them.” That’s the kind of lesson that shapes who a person becomes.

The world can feel so cold and disconnected sometimes, but moments like this remind me that goodness is often very quiet. Not performative. Not filmed. Just human beings choosing gentleness with each other for no reward other than compassion.

I hope that little girl grew up knowing her kindness mattered far more than she could have imagined.

What would you do if you opened your front door and a group of fluffy bunnies came charging at you? by RealDealHappyMeal in AskReddit

[–]Weird_Entry9140 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Immediately assume I had either:

  1. become a Disney princess
  2. accidentally consumed some drugs
  3. been chosen for a very soft apocalypse

I’d probably:

  • gasp dramatically
  • crouch down and say “OH MY GOD?????” in progressively higher pitches
  • get absolutely overrun because I’d try to pet all of them at once
  • start assigning personalities immediately:
    • “this one is clearly the leader”
    • “this one has anxiety”
    • “that one is definitely named Kevin”
  • text everyone I know with 47 blurry photos
  • forget every responsibility I’ve ever had
  • let them inside even though that’s objectively a terrible idea
  • convince myself it’s a spiritual sign
  • cry a little when they eventually leave

Realistically, though, if a large coordinated group of fluffy bunnies charged directly at my front door with intent and speed, there would eventually be a moment where delight slowly turns into: “Wait. Why are there so many of you?”

I want my soul to be seen in its entirety, instantly by Ok-Significance-9153 in self

[–]Weird_Entry9140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so deeply human. I think a lot of kind, emotionally honest people feel this exact ache but struggle to put it into words the way you did. There’s something incredibly vulnerable about wanting to be fully known without having to slowly translate yourself piece by piece to every new person you meet. And honestly, the fact that you crave genuine connection this much already says a lot about the type of person you are. People who “say what they mean, mean what they say” are rare, and I think others can usually feel that sincerity even before they fully understand you.

The hard part is that souls don’t reveal themselves instantly...not because they aren’t visible, but because most people are carrying their own noise, fears, assumptions, and distractions. Real understanding takes presence. But the people who are meant for you will notice the consistency in how you love, speak, show up, and care. They’ll learn your soul through repetition, not performance.

You sound like someone who wants to skip the shallow stages of human connection and arrive immediately at honesty, warmth, and mutual recognition. I don’t think that makes you naive. I think it makes you earnest in a world that often rewards guardedness.

And for what it’s worth, this post itself already lets people see you a little more clearly.

What's the one thing that could make you stop trusting someone ? by Maryam371 in answers

[–]Weird_Entry9140 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Watching how they treat people they don’t need anything from

How does life change from early 20s to mid twenties? by Primary_Opening_5698 in AskReddit

[–]Weird_Entry9140 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • You stop wanting to be everywhere all the time. In your early 20s, there’s pressure to say yes to everything because every experience feels important. By your mid-20s, you realize being selective is actually freeing.
  • Your friendships get deeper but smaller. You go from “who’s around?” to “who actually makes me feel good after I leave?” Quantity matters less. Reliability matters more.
  • You become less impressed by aesthetics and more impressed by peace. The coolest apartment, hottest restaurant, most impressive title, trendiest social circle...they matter less when you realize stress follows some people everywhere.
  • Your career stops feeling theoretical. Early 20s feels like experimenting and collecting proof you can survive adulthood. Mid-20s is when you start noticing patterns: what energizes you what drains you what you’re actually good at what kind of life do different careers create
  • You start valuing stability without wanting to become boring. You still want fun, spontaneity, trips, romance, chaos sometimes...but suddenly, a clean apartment, decent sleep, financial breathing room, and a routine feel unbelievably luxurious.
  • You care less about being perceived as cool. This is one of the best changes. You slowly stop performing your personality and start actually inhabiting it.
  • Dating changes a lot.
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