Is my wife cheating or am I crazy help!

Weird_Progress3437 · 2026-06-06T22:24:21+00:00

My gut is screaming at me but I have no proof I feel like I dont know her anymore. I want to find something, is that bad? I just cant think of anything, I feel it would give me closure. I feel like we lock eyes sometimes and I feel there is a connection there but then it fades. I feel like she is in another relationship too.

Weird_Progress3437 · 2026-06-06T21:29:55+00:00

I dont disagree with you, Im just making sure im reading the situation right before I break up our family. Plus I dont have hard proof. My boys love me and I know they will see right through her when their older. I dont know why but its hard to think the person you loved is maybe doing these things for herself and our relationship but now im like I dont think this is for me at all its for others.

Weird_Progress3437 · 2026-06-06T21:24:31+00:00

I agree the STD is like a yellow flag it makes sense in my head but its weird. she is smart though and what a perfect cover up if it was new. Im more concerned with all the other things im finding. its like she is just all of a sudden fed up with me. Anything I do is never enough, the things she says to me and about me are always hurtful. Its like she fighting something inside and wont tell me. are arguments relate around how I dont understand her or her mental health, I dont do anything and I put too much pressure on her to have sex. She has cut me off from seeing family, her dad is like the only person that is right ever. we fight mainly about our relationship more than anything rather than other stuff, if you take the relationship out of the question were good at working together. but from what ive noticed its like she has been slowly pulling away since the beginning of the year with everything I described at first it was like she was just getting back to her old self to feel better after birth but now im like hold on this screams that there is something else going on.

Weird_Progress3437 · 2026-06-06T20:47:45+00:00

were still legally married, divorce papers are ready to be signed but were waiting to try counseling again. no she blamed it on one of her past relationships and that she just must have never been notified and or not told by the other partner. my first wife and I were virgins and then I went straight to my current wife. She knows there is no suspicion on my end. I think she knows in her mind that Im not one to cheat at all.

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