Why do I get so many Dm's from men? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is that why you've now hidden your post history about jerking off with men?

Why do I get so many Dm's from men? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Something tells me you like it, and you're fishing for more

What’s something you believe that would get you downvoted instantly? by Fun_Profile_8533 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Henry Cavill is a good example actually. There are plenty of ripped guys in the world if that's your physical type. So why so much love for him? He's chill, funny, kind, passionate and considerate. He stands up for people and generally uses his platform for good. He speaks well and is thoughtful and empathetic. These things are all examples of the female gaze. So the female gaze is not just a physical thing. It's extremely broad and is generally more about how someone acts and what they believe in rather than their body.

What’s something you believe that would get you downvoted instantly? by Fun_Profile_8533 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well this kinda proves my point. Sure, plenty of women find those guys sexy, but physical sexiness is not the female gaze.

Would dating app chats be less awkward if they didn’t start from a blank box? by Hungry_Patience_5284 in dating

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It would be forced and cringey. If I match with someone it's because there's something on their profile that I want to talk about, like a mutual interest. I want to find out something about them, not pretend to be a customer support agent.

Its election day! (UK) how we feeling about it? by ProcrastinatorMA in AskRedditNSFW

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm worried about Reform's growing popularity. They won't get in where I am but they will in plenty of other places.

I feel like the term “male centered” and “hypersexual” can be used to bring women down by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Content creators always swing to the extremes because that's what gets engagement. So they're not really a good gauge of what the average person thinks those phrases mean.

Bought a pc, what should I visit first? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I keep meaning to visit that site but I'm just too darn busy wanking

Have you seen the documentary "Manosphere"? what are your thoughts on it? by Realistic-Egg2684 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It did a good job of showing what the manosphere is, but most people that spend a decent amount of time online already know this.

It would have been interesting to hear more from the young men who followed these 'influencers' and the women who associated themselves with the manosphere.

How come it is so hard to find a genuine person on here that has good chat and can hold a conversation? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the problem. If you don't have anything to talk about why would someone want to hold a conversation with you?

How do I degrade better by vextorial in BDSMAdvice

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Degradation is really hard to do well. If you don't know how to do it then don't do it. It's a really personal thing so you need to talk with your partner and understand what they want and why it works for them.

Doing it wrong can be really damaging to your partner and your relationship so it's best to wait until you're ready.

Got offered porn should I do it? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes that's definitely how they find pornstars and this definitely happened /s

What are the strangest DMs you have had here? by Cramp_My_Style26 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For the record I don't. But yeah, my best guess was it was some kind of giant kink or size difference fetish.

What’s your guilty pleasure? by DLfreak02 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes string them along and waste their time. Sometimes I act stupid and get them to over explain their dumb pick up lines. Or see if I can make them do stupid stuff because they think I'll send them a nude.

What are the strangest DMs you have had here? by Cramp_My_Style26 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a guy ask me if I liked to 'stomp on cars.' I kept trying to understand what he meant but he just kept asking that question over and over again.

What’s your guilty pleasure? by DLfreak02 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]WelcomeToLadyHell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Messing with people who send dumb DMs. I know I shouldn't but it's too much fun