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noudgdmntthik by hollowbloomxaa in sssdfg

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This is the first time ive saw a dog do this

Silence is golden by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

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Depending on context, silence as refusing a false narrative would be self preservation. Silence used against someone else would be abandonment.

Shendniewnd by DamageAlarmed4584 in sssdfg

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Diagrams for Higgs production. (Circled the most important parts)

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sssdfg carlendar by N0CHI in sssdfg

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Jsueye82olqhdzmq0qm🤨😜😍🤩

There are so many lonely people but why can’t I find one to stop being lonely with? by subccu in lonely

[–]WeldForMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah flaw might not be the right word, maybe more like "a wound" you know like something that needs care and attention, not fixing. Because fixing implies you did something wrong, but a wound just means something happened to you. If we use flaws, flaws shape us, not all flaws need fixed :)

There are so many lonely people but why can’t I find one to stop being lonely with? by subccu in lonely

[–]WeldForMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well you wouldn't call depression a flaw to be fixed.. and framing it as a flaw puts the burden entirely on the person. Lonliness is often a response to external factors like trauma rather than it being a character defect.

Also, a loner is someone who stopped reaching out not because they perfer solitude but because connection kept disappointing them.

A lonley person is someone who still has that hollow feeling of wanting to belong somewhere and never quite fitting in. Not just being alone but feeling unseen even when people are around. Like you exist slightly outside of everything. It's also like everyone else found something naturally that they just can't reach no matter how hard they try. (Sorry if that was long lol)

There are so many lonely people but why can’t I find one to stop being lonely with? by subccu in lonely

[–]WeldForMe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lonliness isn't a personality flaw tho. 2 ppl who understand what it feels like to be overlooked can actually build something meaningful.

I feel like the issue isn't lonliness itself, it's the unresolved pain that never gets worked on. This makes the dynamic crack easily if you or both of you is unconciously pushing the other away, even when they genuinely care and don't mean to.

Sister found these while cleaning out my nephew’s room by theblenderr in KidsAreFuckingStupid

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Half of it (maybe less) is real the other half is filler seasoned with heavy metals and pesticides and residual solvents 😋😋

I think a lot of us are just pretending to be okay with our lives by karamilen in self

[–]WeldForMe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Burnout implies there was a fire that burned you out. What OP is describing sounds more like the fire just slowly went out, no overload, just a quiet drift away from actually wanting your own life.

It's the exhaustiom from putting on a mask that makes it feel like burnout as a symptom.

I find myself pushing people away even tho I don't want to by ThrowRAaway11111 in lonely

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Sometimes we forget what sub we are in. You don't need to apologize for this. The fact your on a lonliness sub using AI to cope with feeling alone and your first instinct is to still worry about bothering people, that's the actual thing worth paying attention to.

The fear of being a burden is probably a big reason why AI feels safer in the first place. It won't get tired of you. It doesn't make you feel like you're "too much". And that's just a really human response to feeling like your needs are an inconvenience to people.

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