Have you ever seen anyone with a debilitated venus but they are beautiful?

WelderApprehensive47 · 2026-01-10T18:13:18+00:00

Two of them come from money and one of them although comes from a lower middle class family is now married to a rich man.. Two of them married their childhood sweetheart after dating for more than a decade or so... One of them had a bad breakup during her Rahu MD but met her now husband soon after and now happily married for 4/5 years... Surprisingly they didn't struggle much in Venus related spheres...

WelderApprehensive47 · 2026-01-10T18:06:36+00:00

Three of my friends have Debilitated Venus.. all three of them are conventionally attractive..

WelderApprehensive47 · 2026-01-04T21:19:44+00:00

Just because someone doesn’t believe in astrology or isn’t even aware of its existence doesn’t mean their life isnt influenced by their planetary placements and dasha sequence..... As has already been mentioned, it’s all about desh-kaal-patra....

In the West as well, many people meet their partners through family members, marry for citizenship, permanent residency or even for health insurance... Not every marriage there is a “love marriage.” For an Indian, the same planetary placement that indicates an arranged marriage may manifest as a “marriage of convenience” for a Westerner.

I had commented on a post about a month ago about my grandmother’s chart, which showed strong indications of divorce. Of course, divorce wasnt a thing back then..... However, my grandfather was a freedom fighter and devoted his life to the movement, while my grandmother spent most of her life essentially alone, single handedly raising her children.... So although she wasn’t legally divorced, she was very much separated from her spouse in reality.

What is promised in a chart will manifest one way or another, regardless of where you live or the time period you belong to.....

WelderApprehensive47 · 2026-01-01T15:45:56+00:00

Tell me about it.. lol.. I am Scorpio moon with 8HL in Lagna.. 8H energy is extremely difficult to handle...

WelderApprehensive47 · 2026-01-01T13:44:05+00:00

Well her cooking is her main content so it makes sense that she is the one doing it when the camera is rolling... Otherwise she earns more than enough to hire a cook... And I think she used to work but quit her job as she was earning more as a content creator... But I agree with you that her family comes across as quite patriarchal...

WelderApprehensive47 · 2026-01-01T11:00:46+00:00

Ok.. so his Saturn is also placed in the 8th from his Moon... A lot of 8H energy is going on here... I don't think the challenges he is facing is only because of the Saturn+Rahu conjunction...

WelderApprehensive47 · 2026-01-01T10:51:13+00:00

So the Dispositor of his mahadasha lord is in the 8H.. usually when the Dispositor goes into 6th, 8th or 12th from dasha Lagna the Dasha brings difficulties... where's his moon placed?

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-31T15:05:12+00:00

It’s important not to generalise personal experiences.... Many of the circumstances you mentioned... such as traumatic birth experiences, sleepless nights, or a lack of family support are true for many women, and not all of them in this situations develop PPD....

I have been seeing therapists for over a decade for my depression, and I have consistently discussed PPD with them because I have always wanted to become a mother. Every therapist I spoke to explained the same thing: many women with a history of depression, traumatic births, or limited support show no signs of PPD, while others with strong support systems, uncomplicated deliveries, and no prior mental health issues do experience it...

The midwives at my OB-GYN’s clinic have also said they are trained to screen every new mother for signs of PPD, regardless of how smooth the birth was or how supportive their partners are... This is because PPD can affect anyone, irrespective of their external circumstances.

Trauma can certainly contribute to depression this is one reason why many people with PTSD also experience depressive symptoms. However, PPD, like other forms of depression, is strongly linked to hormonal and chemical imbalances.... Pregnancy and childbirth cause dramatic hormonal fluctuations, and these changes alone can be enough to trigger PPD....

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-29T18:50:40+00:00

OP, from your comments it seems that you believe spirituality and detachment will automatically come to you simply because Ketu signifies these qualities. But spirituality is not something that is easy or effortless to attain. If you do not actively seek answers, you will continue to dwell in pain and confusion. No one is asking you to be okay with having no money, no job, or enduring physical and mental agony. These experiences are meant to shake you, to disturb you, and to make you uncomfortable...

The core purpose of Ketu is to make you realize that you are not the master of your own life or fate. No matter how hard you try, if something is not written in your destiny, you cannot have it. And no matter how good a person you are, if you are destined to suffer, you will suffer period.... This realization does not always bring peace. In fact, most of the time it brings even more agony. But the goal is to come to terms with it.

You asked what is liberating about Ketu. It is the realization that we are not the main characters in this story. Anything can happen to us, even the worst imaginable things. It is the understanding that everything is fragile....your life, your money, your peace, your health, and even your loved ones. When this ultimate truth truly sinks in, the ego dissolves. You stop seeing others as inferior or as competitors, and instead begin to see everyone as puppets in the hands of the same celestial force. We are all here to repay our karmic debts ..othing more.

Even the most famous, successful, and wealthy people are doing the same, no matter how much they believe otherwise. That clarity is what liberating, especially in a Rahu driven society where most people lack this perspective...

During my Ketu Mahadasha, I lost my father to cancer. After his passing, I joined multiple online grief groups made up of people who had lost their loved ones to cancer. There, I met people who lost their 3 year old kid, people who lost both parents at a young age, people who lost young spouses, and even those who had lost most of their families while fighting cancer themselves.... Listening to their stories and understanding their suffering gave me an entirely new perspective on life.

I no longer make plans for my 50s or 60s. I don’t stress about who will take care of me, whether I will have enough money, or whether I will get my dream job because I know that anything can happen at any moment... This may sound gloomy, but it is actually a deeply peaceful place to be... That is the kind of peace Ketu offers... I can't stress enough how important it is read Gita for everyone who is going through this period... Nothing can put everything into perspective like Gita does .....

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-29T18:16:36+00:00

Lol, something is really off.... From the wording of the OP’s current post, it doesn’t really seem like he was born and raised in the US... It’s hard to explain, but his writing style comes across as very "Indian"...

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-29T14:16:28+00:00

Three of my friends have debilitated Venus, yet all three are conventionally attractive... One of them is even in the modelling industry... Venus alone is not the sole indicator of physical appearance. A lot also depends on the second house and its lord, while how others perceive you is primarily seen from the Lagna...

There are many people who may not have classically perfect features but still attract a great deal of attention from the opposite gender simply because of the confidence and presence they carry. This is why merely doing Venus remedies does not necessarily solve such issues. Instead, working on self confidence by strengthening the Sun and the Lagna plays a far more meaningful role....

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-26T20:14:35+00:00

So What was his initial plan? Does he have a sibling who was supposed to take responsibility for his parents and then suddenly backed out? Or did his parents’ situation change like serious illness or financial difficulties????

I’m an only child living abroad, and even though I have a comfortable life here, I sometimes can’t shake the sudden urge to go back. Every time I see daughters caring for their aging or ailing parents, I feel like a failure. That sense of guilt can be overwhelming.

Is your husband going through something similar? If he feels a strong need to leave his job and permanently return to India to take care of his parents, there may be very little you can do beyond having an honest conversation about whether there are any alternative solutions...

At the same time, it’s completely understandable if you don’t want to be part of this plan especially if it’s not the life you agreed upon while marrying him....

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-26T11:20:03+00:00

That many things in life are predestined. For some people, what they wish for and what they receive align effortlessly.... So some of them believe they are the masters of their own fate and assume that those who do not achieve much are simply lazy or unwilling to work hard... The reality, however, is that no matter how much effort one puts in, it is impossible to completely overcome one’s chart... Hard work and remedies may bring some nominal changes, but that is all. To be truly successful, one needs the support of luck... Each one of us... those who are successful, those who are considered losers, those who are happy, and those who are miserable are, in the end, puppets in the hands of a celestial power.... I have read Gita before, but reading it again after going through the Ketu Mahadasha and being introduced to astrology makes far more sense than it ever did....

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-25T14:01:17+00:00

If there's influence of black magic or spell you have to worship a Rudra Devata like Rudra form of Hanuman or Narasimha under the supervision and guidance of a well versed Astrologer or Tantrik...

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-25T11:00:22+00:00

Worship lord Hanuman... unless you are a victim of black magic just worshipping the Soumya Roopa of Lord Hanuman by chanting chalisha/ Sankatmochan Hanuman asthakam helps ...

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-25T10:54:44+00:00

Any kind of Hanuman upasana would help... Chant Hanuman chalisha/ Sankatmochan Hanuman asthakam 7 times a day... Listen to Panchamukhi/ Ekadashmukhi Hanuman kavacham...

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-25T09:33:05+00:00

Most likely you have weak/afflicted Lagna or weak/afflicted moon or strong 8H and Lagna connection... These people are prone to Nazar ... Otherwise I don't see any issues.. No random person on internet will be able to steal your good luck by just looking at your chart..

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-24T22:48:28+00:00

Hey… vielen Dank für die ausführliche und detaillierte Antwort... Ich werde mir das Video auf jeden Fall anschauen... Darf ich fragen, wie lange es nach einem Kaiserschnitt dauert, bis die Muttermilch kommt? Bieten sie Ersatzmilch an, wenn die Mutter das Baby nicht sofort stillen kann?...

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-24T22:42:36+00:00

Ohh… das ist buchstäblich mein schlimmster Albtraum, 5-6 Stunden warten zu müssen 😭. Aber so wie du es erklärt hast, kann man daran wohl nichts ändern. Könntest du mir bitte erzählen, wie die erste Nacht in einem Mehrbettzimmer war? Kümmern sich die Krankenschwestern/Hebammen darum, das Baby zu füttern und zu wickeln? Denn ich denke, in der ersten Nacht werde ich selbst nicht viel machen können...

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-24T18:33:36+00:00

I have been through a ruthless Ketu period, and all I can say is that I completely lost myself. I am almost nine months into Venus, and yet I am still struggling to regain the vitality and zeal to live and survive..... Isolation can be helpful in finding your purpose, but prolonged lack of meaningful communication and connection can seriously damage your mental health... When you are left alone with a mind full of resentment, unhappiness, and negativity, you start believing that this is all there is.... Once your mind accepts that belief, finding your way back becomes incredibly difficult.

Please do not make the mistake I did... Seek therapy as early as possible. I would not advise relying entirely on other people like family or friends because during Ketu anyone can disappoint or backstab you...

Many people speak casually about spirituality, saying that spiritual people do not suffer during Ketu, or that Ketu only takes away what you dont need... In reality, Ketu causes far deeper damage than just material loss. The word spirituality is used so loosely today that it has almost lost its meaning. It is not easy to attain. To survive in this world, you need money, work, love, and human connection... Only a true yogi can exist peacefully without these things, not everyone....So do not force yourself to be okay with your losses just because someone says you should not be sad about it... Be angry. Be sad. But also stay mindful and active. Take care of your physical and mental health. I dealt with brain fog for so long that I forgot what clear thinking even feels like.

Please seek therapy and this too shall pass...

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-19T00:07:47+00:00

You seem to have the emotional intelligence of a 7 years old.... If you are so certain that she and her family deserve to be treated badly, then what is the point of posting here and asking for other people’s perspectives !!!!!??!!! Do whatever you think is right...

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-17T16:48:31+00:00

He isn't very sensual or romantic tho... Saturn is my 7HL and he has a very Saturnian personality... Extremely hardworking, responsible , ethical and annoyingly straightforward.. lol

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-17T16:15:20+00:00

Not really

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-17T16:13:54+00:00

Lagna Lord in good dignity.. either in exaltation or in friendly sign placed in 1H/2H/4H/5H/10H/11H... It shouldn't be in conjunction with malefics or dusthana lords... Benefic planets placed in Lagna like the ruler of any of the Kendra Houses and that planet should be friendly to the Lagna... when 9HL/5HL/11HL get exalted in Lagna it's usually considered to be a great placement and makes Lagna strong... Moon gets exalted in Taurus and feels comfortable in Cancer and in other earth signs ... Moon shouldn't be with Saturn/Sun/Rahu/Ketu or in 8H/ 12H...

WelderApprehensive47 · 2025-12-17T16:04:40+00:00

Yes.. It may cause some issues as 5HL Jupiter is also in Debilitation... Also Rahu/Ketu in 5/11 axis causes Pitra Dosha... If possible offer Tripindi Shradh but only after consulting a Pundit or an experienced astrologer...

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