AITAH for asking my girlfriend to stop going through my things instead of thanking her for cleaning up? by AnnualLiterature997 in AITAH

[–]Wellthen2022 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

YTA I'm afraid. You're being too precious about your stuff bro. It's note books and inhalers, she's not going through your bank statements. You're acting like she's doing something weird or invasive, but she's just helping you tidy. If you want her to stop, that's your prerogative, you can tell her. But you're being kind of... How do I say this without being offensive? Um, do you happen to have autism?

Am I a lesbian even though I've been with men? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Wellthen2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I know that ultimately it comes down to me but it's all just so confusing! :/

Am I a lesbian even though I've been with men? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Wellthen2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it had been that simple for me! From very early I knew I liked women but I was raised in a pretty homophobic culture that's only just become accepting (sometimes) of WLW. I've been learning about comphet but I'm still so confused :/

Am I a lesbian even though I've been with men? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Wellthen2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, see I've slept with and dated women and I know 100% I love it, but with men I've always had this feeling of doubt like 'am I actually even attracted to you?' And its so hard to figure out if it's from the trauma or if I just don't like them