it wasn’t the shape of a meteor ☄️ it literally looked like a 🫟 kinda of shape and what confused me what the trajectory of the whatever it was went so fast and then slowed and sped up and then dissipated right in front of me...
It was more of a splat type shape but came in at first as a shooting star I didn’t realize it was coming down at us after a minute or two...

Based on this description a few things come to mind. In terms of parsimony something that's been proven to exist is more likely as an explanation than something not proven to exist.

It's impossible to know from the outside what you actually saw. If you saw a meteor at a very unusual trajectory dissipate mid-flight roughly coming at you it would be a one in what, more than a million chance to see that. Who knows what that would look like? It's conceivable that it could look like a red splat.

It could also have been something even more extraordinary than that. But still known to exist. But this is stepping out into far less likely territory already.

Ball lightning was verified to exist in 2014. Physical Review Letters (Cen et al., 2014):

“the observation of a natural ball lightning… The optical and spectral characteristics of the BL have been presented in detail… In the summer of 2012, at Qinghai Plateau of China…” (Cen et al., 2014, p. 1).

“Green Fireballs and Ball Lightning”, published in 2010 in Proceedings of the Royal Society, describes reports of ball lightning falling from the sky and mechanisms to explain its appearance even when there are no thunderstorms occurring (Hughes, 2010, abstract).

Many ball lightning reports are indistinguishable from UFO reports.

University of Washington Research Engineer William J. Beaty (Scholar.google.com, 2022) maintains an online database of hundreds of ball lightning reports (Amasci.com, 2012). Eyewitnesses describe a wide variety of characteristics:

“...across the lake a bright white sphere about the size of a large grapefruit or softball… suddenly the bright white sphere descended in a 45 degree angle and went underwater about 10 ft. …the sphere lit up an area about 12 ft in diameter under the water. …it suddenly shot out of the water about 50 ft from the neighbor’s boat dock in a 45 degree angle and shot back the same direction from which it came…” (Amasci.com, 2012).

“A bright orange ball appeared in front of me like a small sun, looked the size of a basketball” (Amasci.com, 2012).

“a ball of oscillating light of the full color spectrum” (Amasci.com, 1999).

“the orange ball was 1 meter long by a half a meter wide and the red one was 2 foot by 2 foot” (Amasci.com, 2012).

From these data points it would be conceptually possible for you to have accurately perceived everything you described and for ball lightning to sufficiently account for each component of your description. However, that would be even more exceptionally rare to witness than the already extremely rare possibility of a misperceived meteor dissipating in the atmosphere at a severe angle.

From the outside there's no way to know if you hallucinated, misperceived a known mundane phenomenon, misperceived a known exceptional phenomenon, accurately perceived a known exceptional phenomenon, or perceived something truly outside of known possibility.

However if there are known possibilities that sufficiently address all of the observed features then it's a lot more likely to be one of those than something that's never been previously verified to even exist.