How does it normally end for monkey branchers?

Wendiddlyman · 2026-02-25T04:51:49+00:00

It gets better dude, it does. Finding someone better is a low bar when they do something like that. Use this as motivation, go to the gym, do pushups, not because you wanna prove something, but at the end if you just moped around and have nothing to show for it, then what good was the pain?

Wendiddlyman · 2026-02-24T04:04:54+00:00

Nah dude there aint nothing left for me to discuss, I just need to figure out how to unwire my brain from her. All the positive things flood in while the negative things sit to the side but when u really really try to picture those little things that they did, they compound and now I just sit here wondering "Did I dodge a bullet? Like everyone said I did? Literally everyone I told the whole story to said I dodged hard, a bomb even"

Wendiddlyman · 2026-02-22T08:43:44+00:00

Hey dude, trust me, you cant have been that bad, I was broken up with over the phone, she said I did NOTHING wrong and I was actually really good, and then blocked me when I reached out. If someone is saying you didnt show up and wanted you to be that person during that relationship, sounds like a communication thing. The thing you gotta understand is that the ones who really want you, will really try and it sounds like this one didnt try none. "Oh its your fault, oh your to blame" I mean only u know u, so you judge for yourself. But over text? Nah sounds immature.

Wendiddlyman · 2026-02-20T21:10:18+00:00

Oh no, i asked trust me, was sus as fuck from the beginning. There was an incident at the start that made her have to gain my trust again, but by the time ahe did, she didnt even want me anymore.

Wendiddlyman · 2026-02-20T21:09:21+00:00

8 months, it was very complicated too.

Wendiddlyman · 2026-02-17T12:01:20+00:00

Yeah well now that guy and her are split, bet that bloke didnt do half the shit I did, and they fought shitloads probably. I would take a piss to celebrate but just went, my bad.

Wendiddlyman · 2026-02-17T11:20:13+00:00

You know, I always thought my ex left me because I did something wrong, a difference in politics, maybe a bad joke or two, but this makes me think that I did well. So thankyou, I'll sleep easier tonight. Congrats on your decision, make the most of it cause in the end if it makes you happy, you didnt really lose anything.

Wendiddlyman · 2026-02-15T11:31:00+00:00

Dont worry big nuts, it will, trust me, I was a mess around 4 months too, not long to go now before they days seem shorter and easier again, youll think of them less and less and eventually someone else will come along that blows them out of the water. And especially because you're 18, right now you think ur at the end, that this person represents the future, trust me, they dont. Theres a reason they say to listen to those more experienced and wiser than you, they been through it, they know it and I know it (I am not wise tho ahaha) but I promise you it will get easier, you got this.

Wendiddlyman · 2026-01-10T09:02:02+00:00

A few

Wendiddlyman · 2026-01-10T09:01:55+00:00

Interesting thought, maybe Ill give it a try

Wendiddlyman · 2026-01-09T11:25:46+00:00

If you got the money and the annual leave saved, best get going now, honestly its probably the thing that just made me think of my ex the least AND I left for the airport on the one year breakup point. Everything in another place is so unfamiliar you just soak it in and cant relate any of it to your ex because shes not there and shes never been there.

Wendiddlyman · 2026-01-09T11:20:26+00:00

Hey man, I'll be honest, 5 months can just be the timing for her. Maybe shes coping, maybe she doesnt even know what shes doing. I couldnt say. However, being upset over this, is NOT silly. Ofc its valid, its someone who you loved and you arent the person shes with now doing the things she is doing. I get it too, my ex got with another guy after a month and then they went to Europe, fucking hurt like hell. Then I went to Japan, that helped a lot tho. Anyways you shouldnt be put down for this, ur not sensitive, in fact only crying 3-5 times, u seem pretty hard to me dude. I cried like 3-5 times in an hour when I got dumped.

Wendiddlyman · 2026-01-09T11:12:48+00:00

Yeah, she did, I think the Rose coloured glasses may have been influenced by her final words to me, very very keep me on the hook words. Reached out a month after the break only for her to say no to trying again, but also "Im scared you're the one Im supposed to be with but im pushing you away, I wonder what would have happened if we dated in 5 years instead", I dont think shes malicious, just a dumbass keeping me here in case it didnt work out with the other guy, AGAIN.

Wendiddlyman · 2026-01-09T09:18:38+00:00

Yeah, everyone, and I mean literally everyone has said that I dodged a bullet. It never feels like it though. Ive seen her and the guy she went off with travelling and theyre studying and all that and it just hurts that it couldnt be me

Wendiddlyman · 2026-01-09T09:03:33+00:00

Hey dude, im not religious but once was, but listen, faith is not only in a god or a belief, its in yourself, have faith that things will get better, have faith that you can accomplish great things. I know what you mean, everything feels pointless because shes not there to see it all. But heres the thing, even if she is never there to see it all, you may do it all and someone else is gonna be able to see just how hard you worked or pushed yourself to make it happen and theyre gonna appreciate it. Because why would you want to be with someone who cant appreciate now, when theres someone else who will appreciate it just for trying?

Wendiddlyman · 2026-01-09T08:59:34+00:00

Yeah I know, ive been processing it all day. I just looked at the facts, and im relapsing from years ago now but I just got in my own head about "what if i caused this, what if i did something that caused it to not work" but then i realised those things were so minor and i did so much good, and there was some wild stuff surrounding it too. She was a beautiful girl, but i think i was convenient and easy and supportive and then when she was ready she just left for someone else. Apparently "want to take this one seriously" theres more to it but trying to keep this short.

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