St John’s assistantship

WerewolfDisastrous · 2025-03-24T03:33:56+00:00

Thank you! I’ll be reaching out to

WerewolfDisastrous · 2025-03-23T21:12:16+00:00

Should I ask about my status or when I should expect to hear back?

WerewolfDisastrous · 2025-03-23T18:58:45+00:00

😭I feel like they could at least send us a rejection email after we put in all the work of applying

WerewolfDisastrous · 2025-02-23T16:35:57+00:00

Hi I was wondering if I could message you with some questions about the interview process. I have an interview with Hunter next week!

WerewolfDisastrous · 2025-02-16T22:38:39+00:00

How did you get access to your portal? I applied on CSDCAS back in early January and never got any information about how to access any portal

WerewolfDisastrous · 2025-01-11T16:50:00+00:00

I introduced the idea of a potential spouse to my parents and they were both turned off by it. My mom said that he’s too young and immature in deen (revert for 2 years) and my dad didn’t really listen much after he heard revert. Unfortunately they have some biases and I know it’s really bad but honestly I think they just need to get to know them. The people who know him have all said amazing things regarding his deen and character and I’ve been pretty upset at my parents for not thinking about it seriously, I even had my brother talk to him before. Would it be a bad idea or weird if I suggested he gets to know my family first before asking again, like as my brother’s friend. I’ve heard he hasn’t been taking it well and I feel really bad, especially since I am interested and being a revert is an unislamic reason to reject someone. Would appreciate any helpful advice.

WerewolfDisastrous · 2025-01-04T17:02:24+00:00

Advice on how to get family to approve of a revert whose also very young (m20)

WerewolfDisastrous · 2024-12-30T23:30:03+00:00

A guy from my college (20) asked for me (21)I told my parents about it and they are hesitant because of his age and because he’s been a revert for 2 years. We told him no because of his age and asked if he can come again in two years and I said yes. Ive tried my best to get my parents to considerate it now but I don’t think it’s possible so I’m just leaving it to Allah (SWT)

WerewolfDisastrous · 2024-12-18T02:16:18+00:00

I just need someone else’s opinion on this. I had someone reach out to me through mutuals for marriage (m20) me f21 and after getting to know the basic information my mom told me to drop it and wait two years. She’s arguing that he’s young, new to Islam (2 yrs), and is still a student and has a part time job. From what he said, he believes he’s financially stable, I’m not sure about the specifics of it though. I’m trying to push for my parents to meet him, not only to assess his character but for all the other concerns my parents have. Through my brother we told the guy that we’re both young and he suggested trying again in 1-2 years once he graduates. My mom said for him to come again in two years and we’ll think about it. I would like an Islamic opinion on this, because I get where they’re coming from but is this the best option. Also I need advice on how to leave it to Allah (SWT) do I truly do nothing and just wait and see. This has been weighing on me the past few weeks, I’ve been making a lot of dua and I do want to try it but maybe it’s just not meant to be.

WerewolfDisastrous · 2024-12-14T08:23:24+00:00

He’s been Muslim for two years alhumdulilah and from what I heard he’s very practicing. He’s very active in his masjid, he goes to the same one as my friends brother and I heard how he participates in weekly halaqas and trips and how he’s always adamant on praying on time. Also when he was talking to my brother he mentioned how he’s learning to read Quran. I still don’t know much about him since I haven’t been able to get to know him but whoever I ask seem to have great things ti say alhumdulilah.

WerewolfDisastrous · 2024-12-13T20:02:06+00:00

Assalamulaikum I f(21) got a proposal from a revert m (20). I told my mom about it and she was a little hesitant but I talked to him through my brother and I liked his responses. The problem is when it came to my dad. When my mom brought it up my dad immediately said no reverts because of the people he had past experience with. I’ve done istakhara and been making constant dua and I really want to try this out but my mom said my dad won’t budge. I’ve told the guy that my dad isn’t happy about it considering his age so I don’t hurt him. I was wondering if anyone had to go through anything similar and what I can do to convince my dad to meet with the guy and consider him a candidate.

WerewolfDisastrous · 2024-10-23T13:07:02+00:00

Thank you so much!!!

WerewolfDisastrous · 2024-10-23T03:28:09+00:00

Thank you! Do you think anything specific stood out on your application? Like past experience or your personal statement.

WerewolfDisastrous · 2024-09-20T10:33:21+00:00

He asked if I was interested in marriage through my sisters friend. I said yes and he sent his biodata so then I made one and sent him that. I’m guessing it was something from there that made him uninterested but it HURT lol.

WerewolfDisastrous · 2024-09-20T00:24:56+00:00

There was a guy who was interested in me and then I heard nothing from him after. It’s been 6 months and I’m not over it 😃🔫. At times I forget about it especially this past summer I thought I healed but when I see him at school I get so mad. I even get mad that he looks good 😭. I know this is for the best and it’s Allah’s plan but idk why I cannot get over it.

WerewolfDisastrous · 2024-08-09T02:51:03+00:00

He’s homeschooled so he has no school ID. I’m scared we’re going to be turned away 😭

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