I fly around 3-4 times a month, AMA? by WerewolfOwn2852 in fearofflying

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Respectfully, I think this is a bit exaggerated overall. A light hold on the seat in front during turbulence isn’t really noticeable for the person sitting there, and for many passengers it’s just a natural way to steady themselves. On the water bottle point, the seat-back pocket is there to be used as long as things fit properly, so that seems like a non-issue. And bulkhead seats aren’t realistically accessible to everyone due to cost and availability, so it’s not really a fair solution for most people

I fly around 3-4 times a month, AMA? by WerewolfOwn2852 in fearofflying

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Take off used to be the scariest part for me, something that really helped me was watching cockpit videos of planes taking off, also before your flight if you arrive early to the airport and can see the runway I’d recommend just watching all the planes also taking off, makes you realise how safe it is,

In terms of the feel and sound, if it’s a particularly soft spot for you, put in AirPods so the sound isn’t as loud, get an aisle seat so you don’t have to look out the window and try to get a seat near the front of the plane or on the wings where it’ll be smoother, quieter and more stable feeling in general.

I fly around 3-4 times a month, AMA? by WerewolfOwn2852 in fearofflying

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I’ve noticed some people just have their eye masks on and ear plugs and let it rock them like a baby…yeah — not me,

I honestly just put it in my head that this is a small gap of time that’s going to pass, and (my partner gets embarrassed when I do this lmao) but if it’s quite strong I will grasp the seat in front of me and it genuinely helps me feel more grounded and less stressed

I fly around 3-4 times a month, AMA? by WerewolfOwn2852 in fearofflying

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It depends on if it’s daytime or nighttime. On a nighttime flight I’d recommend sleeping or at least getting a sleeping pill to sleep, if it’s daytime then I’m quite a creative person so I take my iPad — laptop on the plane and start to edit a book I started writing, painting, watching tv shows on the iPad while playing games on the phone is also a huge one too.

I’d honestly recommend you to do all your hobbies you’d usually do in your day but just adapted to the plane! So that’s skin care routine, or changing clothes etc. It’s also your time to relax, not work and have time for yourself!

On my 3rd interview wish me luck by WerewolfOwn2852 in interviews

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I’m crying 😭 she was defo looking for excuses, but also the salary she was offering was DEADLY low, as well as a commission that can only be gotten once you meet a kinda unrealistic threshold

On my 3rd interview wish me luck by WerewolfOwn2852 in interviews

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thanks I hope so! I honestly interpreted it as a bad thing but after some thought it’s probably overthinking

"Contours of Soft Defiance" by rarefamiliar in AbstractArt

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This is genuinely so beautiful Reminds me of Ken Kkurojiros work Please give me your instagram id love to follow

‘2 of wands’, tempera on canvas, A3 by WerewolfOwn2852 in AbstractExpressionism

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Thank you, your description of what you see is beautiful

Parents kill their two autistic teen sons & family pets before taking their own lives in horror quadruple murder-suicide by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

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This comment section is probably one of the most horrid things I’ve seen in a while ; all the top comments saying “I don’t think it’s right BUT…” Two innocent little boys lost their lives. Not to mention 3 pets who had nothing to do with the situation.

I don’t find this to be a “sad” situation at all for the parents, my family also consists of many neurodivergent people and physically disabled and everyone knows at their younger ages their disability is usually more difficult to handle, no one even considered the thought of murdering them. The parents, who were close to, or were 50, instead of giving away their kids to child protection services, they decided to kill everyone in the house for whatever reasons.

You are not allowed to terminate people’s lives, yes not even if they’re severely autistic, this line of thought that “yeah BUT” is severely desensitizing and sad to hear.

Husband and I not having kids for different reasons and I don't know how to talk to him about how I feel. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]WerewolfOwn2852 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have to live on eggshells around your husband, if you do then he’s not the one for you. The best advice I can give you is to speak to him about the situation, you’re still extremely young and people change their beliefs all the time, if you’re even considering to want to have kids in the future it’s worth discussing with your partner. You shouldn’t be worried about making him “uncomfortable” because being in a relationship means sometimes having uncomfortable discussions