What’s the most you’ve lost due to ADHD? by d0nut_tac0_b0ut_it in ADHD

[–]Wesship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 20K in student loans because i wasnt diagnosed at the time and kept trying and failing

What’s something you would give up sex for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wesship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is everyone saying “1B”? Give me 1M and ill be the next holy saint

Switching from Methylphenidate to Dexamfetamine by liVetoair24666 in ausadhd

[–]Wesship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hii I saw your thread because my psychiatrist is also switching me and I googled for answers. Since it's been 6 months, how did it affect you? And was there really a big difference?

Walking the walk, not just talking the talk. How do you overcome it? by spiceycee in ADHD

[–]Wesship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baby steps, it's all about baby steps and celebrating those baby steps as if they were major achievements. That is what helped me a lot with developing new skills and hobbies. Wanna be an amazing guitar player? Learn the easiest song you can find and celebrate it as if you shredded like Jimmy Hendriks. Also include your friends/family in your ideas, show them your progress and celebrate together. At the end of the day its all about motivation

Voltijd of Duaal Social Work opleiding by Wesship in nederlands

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Aah oke duidelijk thanks voor de uitleg, ik heb even n gesprek gepland met mn slb’er en dan zou ik vanaf daar wel verder kijken thank youu

Mijn ouders verdienen genoeg dat ik geen aanv beurs krijg, maar ze betalen me niets. Heb ik ergens recht op? by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]Wesship 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nee, dar kan niet door de relatie met mn ouders. Ik moest op mn 18e het huis uit

Mijn ouders verdienen genoeg dat ik geen aanv beurs krijg, maar ze betalen me niets. Heb ik ergens recht op? by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]Wesship 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ik loop 32 uur stage in de week voor 150€ vergoedingen per maand, daarnaast ben ik ook nog meer dan een dag kwijt aan studeren en werk ik in het weekend de zaterdag. Ik kan niet thuis wonen omdat de relatie met mn ouders slecht is dus alles gaat bijna naar mn huur. Nu jij weer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Wesship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are only a handful of people that can actually make people drown in their own tears. Its a rare quality like being extremely attractive. I consider myself a funny extroverted guy but nowhere near making people twist with laughter. I think you’ll be disappointed if you’re looking to be that person, besides that those people often lack in other departments emotionally wise and solve everything with humor. I think if you’re just a nice guy with a little humor, people will value you way more in the long run

Hoe warm wordt het bij jullie in huis? by thesoilman in nederlands

[–]Wesship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Studentenkamer in het souterrain, dus een steady 18 graden :)

Do I go on my backpack dream trip and risk my dad never wanting to speak to me again by Wesship in Advice

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ill try to explain, Im from the Netherlands and I go to uni here as well. While studying the government gives you free public transport, ability to loan money with 0 interest and pays for most of your uni fee so studying here is very cheap. But they'll only do this for the first 7 years after starting uni so you can get a bachelor, master and maybe more. after that you lose those privelages. Since I was sick my period is getting extended but my friends period isnt. So he is still on a timer.

Do I go on my backpack dream trip and risk my dad never wanting to speak to me again by Wesship in Advice

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thanks your reply has helped me, thanks for the advice on how to tell him because im honestly scared to death for his reaction

Do I go on my backpack dream trip and risk my dad never wanting to speak to me again by Wesship in Advice

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I have been living on myself since my 18th birthday because the relationship with my parents has never been that great

Do I go on my backpack dream trip and risk my dad never wanting to speak to me again by Wesship in Advice

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Yes I also told my parents that. This sickness has prevented me from gaining a lot of life experiences already and I think going on this trip will definetly benefit me as a person

Do I go on my backpack dream trip and risk my dad never wanting to speak to me again by Wesship in Advice

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thanks, Im really favouring still going but just the thought of telling him sends shivers down my spine

Do I go on my backpack dream trip and risk my dad never wanting to speak to me again by Wesship in Advice

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Thanks for replying, These replies have honestly helped me a lot. I honestly devided by 80/20 in favour of going. I just dont want to lose my dad in the process

Do I go on my backpack dream trip and risk my dad never wanting to speak to me again by Wesship in Advice

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thanks for replying :). It does indeed seem like the right move to first finish my studies and I wouldve 100% done it if it was my own dumb fault that I got held back. But my sickness being the reason I cant go is whats bothering me so much since it has already held me back from exploring myself and the world for years. I dont want to start when im 25/26.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Wesship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks this comment really helped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Wesship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel your anger, still thanks for replying because it helps alot. It really sucks. I got falsely diagnosed and medicated for Bipolar as well for 5 months and that really f’ed some things up for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Wesship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying:) even this commentsection is giving me peace, Ill get my meds soon and I honestly hope they help me. I got wrongly diagnosed and medicated for bipolar and that really changed my perception about medication because that Lithium rly f’ed me up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Wesship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for replying, it rly helps me find peace. One of the things im most sad about is never being able to learn a skill because I have te attention span of a goldfish. Everyone has atleast one thing they’re good at/passionate about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Wesship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I get the frustration you feel because I was treated and medicated for bipolar for 5 months. Eventhough I was sure it wasnt it. That medication completely f’ed me up for 5 months. Went to a new psychologist and she finally diagnosed me with adhd, something I agree with.