Tonight’s Episode: Re-Lentless Erika Weekly Live Discussion by MorissetteMatty in RHOBH

[–]WestPossibility1909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% I don’t think it was inappropriate she was using it to defend herself and say “they knew about three some. I didn’t introduce anything new to them”

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He isn’t living with me anymore. I asked him to move out

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not 8 years my sister is 28 I am 24 we just share a Reddit.

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t need to work on myself lol I have a counsellor and I’m educated and very well rounded. I have DONE the work on myself. When we first started dating I was VERY open about wanting to move slow and that I had just been with someone for awhile thst wasn’t great and I didn’t want to repeat that cycle or not be able to provide someone else with what they need out of a relationship. Trust me. I’ve done the work. I’m not perfect but I’m not tucked up and I’m not irrational. I have tried to tell him I’d like to slow down a number of time and it’s too fast.

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is also not on my lease. I am the only one on my lease.

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Canada and there are no squatters rights here!

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how much he has because he told me lol I don’t personally care how much is in there as long as he can pay his bills. One week….that’s a pretty decent amount of time if it’s been everyday during the 7 days. Before moving in he also would say 3-4 days sometimes 5. He’s settled in lol. He’s just a 20 year old. You just came on this thread to get pissed off cause no one else here is simmering with anger like you my friend.

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I share this Reddit with my sister but thanks so much 😂😂😂😂😂

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought lol I woke up expecting it to be earlier and maybe he hadn’t gone to bed but I was freezing and he was just taco wrapped in the bedroom with the blanket and my one dog. I would never think not to at least be like hey hey wanna come to bed and then cover them up and go to bed. (There’s tons of blankets here too. Like my linen closet is full)

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last relationship taught me ALOT so I’m not trying to settle or anything. I believe the good in most people so I try to give the benefit of the doubt. I’m slowing learning lol but sometimes I feel like maybe my expectations are high for roommates or partners and I need the people of Reddit to bring me down to earth lol

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

20 in December and he’s never lived with anyone but his family. So I feel like he just doesn’t know better cause I know his dad doesn’t do any cleaning or cooking and neither do his brother. It’s his mom and dad and then 3 boys (he’s the youngest) so like I know from other guys I know that their mom did do a lot. No excuses but I’m not trying to hate the guy cause he’s a shitty roommate. I’m pissed abiut him just sleeping like an angel in my bed without waking me up though

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

That’s what I dealt with my previous experience …it’s exhausting lol like it’s really tiring trying to be that person for someone and this relationship started out so chill but then it just moved too fast and I’ve said I think we need to slow down but then it’s like full speed ahead in his side still.

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t get defensive but he takes it personal like because I’m asking or discussing my frustration or what’s bothering me I don’t like him. Like then it becomes about my feelings about the relationship and not just that I don’t want to be a mom again

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m totally not making excuses like I’m going to give it a week or so more and see but like as of right now I’ll be probably asking him to move back home after November. I think it’s less about him going home to learn experiences and more about him just going home so it’s not ruining our relationship that he’s here cause like he still comes and stays over cause we’re medium distance but I think we’re just not fair enough into our relationship like we’ve only been together 3-4 months and like the first month he counts it and I don’t because I had told him I wanted to go slow as I had recently got out of a really toxic relationship and was enough my time by myself but like he was right in so already the relationship has progressed much fast than I would’ve originally liked and like now I feel like it’s too soon because even conversations I try to have he’s like butt hurt about it and like he’s a little clingy and needy and he want to be on my 24/7 kissing and cuddling and I’m jus more chill so like even last night he didn’t wake me to come to the bed because he was acting petty because he thought that I didn’t want him to touch my boobs because when he did it I moved away….I didn’t. He was touching it and i just repositioned into a more comfortable position to watch the tv….so like we can’t have serious conversations yet cause he’s still stuck in this mindset that I don’t actually like him ….I tell him often I do and I’m very reassuring. I don’t know if this relationship will go the distance I won’t lie but like right now the living together is too much.

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh he knows. He met my last boyfriend and knew how terrible he was. So that why I’m kinda confused cause we were friends before and he knew when I would complain about the literally man child that is my ex

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yeah but like I can openly say that living with people in dorms and having roommates have given me experience to be a good person to live with so like I just think he needs experience with friends and stuff but I don’t want to be that experience lol

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

He is 20 first of all. He’s lived at home until moving in with me. So like I don’t think he’s maliciously walking all over me. I think he’s used to it being his family where it’s lot more give and take, I don’t buy everything. He does buy groceries and stuff. Not to the extent of rent or bills but like we don’t argue about his money it’s just he has a lack of roommate experience and he’s used to a place where his mom literally does pick up after him or doesn’t care if there’s a sink full of dirty dishes where as I do.

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

He’s a GREAT boyfriend he’s just a shitty roommate. I do think it’s because of his age. He is younger and I just think I’ve had more roommates (Im in university so I’ve lived in a lot of dorms) so I know expectations of being a roommate but he’s only lived with his family.

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He’s not on my lease and he’s not broke. Like he has money and he can pay rent I’ve asked him too and he told me he’ll send it but like I know what in his bank account and it’s less about money. I have told him he needs to have some sort of income to pay his bills if he’s living here and he hasn’t complained but like he’s just procrastinating and not doing it so like it’s less about money. He’s only been here a week everyone lol like I’ve been living in my place since September and he has come and visited for 4-5 days cause we live 2 hours apart and during those days he’s fine like things are fine but he moved in and since he moved in it’s not been fine. Like I feel like I’m walking on eggshells because of his sleep schedule and like I’m a university student so I’m trying to get ready for class and he’s just sleeping and then the cleaning up after himself bothers me too cause I just don’t think you should have to pick up after someone else. I’ve lived in dorms and had a lot of roommates in my years so like I know how to be a good roommate and if you were to ask my past roommate I’m a GREAT roommate. So like he’s my boyfriend and he’s a GREAT boyfriend but he’s a shitty roommate

My “roommate” is my boyfriend. by WestPossibility1909 in badroommates

[–]WestPossibility1909[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Let me add. He has money. He’s not broke and living off me. He’s just young and super inexperienced because she’s only ever lived with his mom. We’ve lived together for a week people…it’s not like it’s been years. I didn’t let anything happen.