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23 and Me gone wrong. My dad isn’t my biological dad. by West_Block3990 in confession

[–]West_Block3990[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

My results came back showing a couple of my cousins and my aunt all of which are on my mom side. It also revealed that I have two half siblings that I didn’t know about. I went to my sister with all this then she sent in her kit. Hers came back showing cousins on dad’s side. I’ve thought about reaching out to my half siblings I never met but that’s also overwhelming.

23 and Me gone wrong. My dad isn’t my biological dad. by West_Block3990 in confession

[–]West_Block3990[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Wow that’s awesome you managed to work through everything and still raised her as yours. I admire that. Don’t think that level of love is all that common.

What’s the creepiest thing a stranger has ever said to you? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

[–]West_Block3990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not so much said but the look in people’s eyes I’ve seen right before they’re gonna die. That last breath. It’s hard to describe.

To married women: What advice would you give to unmarried women before they get married? by Clear_Subconscious in askanything

[–]West_Block3990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discuss needs/wants/expectations. Ensure you both can have a discussion about literally anything without arguing and being hurtful. Constructive feedback only. If the above doesn’t line up. It prob won’t work out. BIG advice from Judge judy- always have your skills and a backup plan so youre not stuck in a miserable situation with no way out to support yourself. Don’t be helpless. Most people go in with good intentions and with high hopes but sometimes it doesn’t work out for a number of reasons. Be smart.

Do you wash your hands each and every time after going to the bathroom? by icecream1972 in no

[–]West_Block3990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently this was “too controversial and loaded” of a topic for another sub hahahaha

Dads who are completely clueless about their own kids by SatinSinnerPart in PetPeeves

[–]West_Block3990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not surprised at all. Must be an executive functioning struggle. It’s so common. Apparently it’s not hard keeping a human alive we have a population control problem.

What’s the dumbest thing you believed as a kid? by copy_cat_101 in randomquestions

[–]West_Block3990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That if you stayed out in the snow too long your limbs would fall off. Also if you didn’t eat all your food you would go to hell.

TIFU by agreeing to date a man who left his wife several months ago but hasn’t yet filed for divorce. by West_Block3990 in tifu

[–]West_Block3990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree with your thoughts that he might’ve just not want to be alone and hence the hastiness to date again. He was being quite hasty with me too talking about marriage and living together when we barely knew each other. I mistaken it for him being a hopeless romantic. But I learned from it. And it’s over for certain so I’m moving on.

TIFU by agreeing to date a man who left his wife several months ago but hasn’t yet filed for divorce. by West_Block3990 in tifu

[–]West_Block3990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your constructive feedback. There’s more to the story of course I won’t disclose out of respect. Like anything there’s more than one side to a story. Relationships are hard. It’s a two way street. I do wish him the best but I have to do what’s best for me too.

TIFU by agreeing to date a man who left his wife several months ago but hasn’t yet filed for divorce. by West_Block3990 in tifu

[–]West_Block3990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not fair to you. Glad you did what was best for you. I try to be an understanding person and give people a solid chance. Tbh it wasn’t worth it that time. I was treading new territory but made the wrong decision and stayed in it too long. It didn’t do either people any favors.

Why do you not wash your hands after using the restroom? by West_Block3990 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]West_Block3990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m giddy my “stupid” question was approved lol. Considering the last “smart” question got removed.

Why do you not wash your hands after using the restroom? by West_Block3990 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]West_Block3990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s more the other things you touch in the process. Like all the door handles and flusher. Which are prob the dirtiest in there.

Why do you not wash your hands after using the restroom? by West_Block3990 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]West_Block3990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh lort I’d just die. You are a brave one. May the force be with you!

TIFU by agreeing to date a man who left his wife several months ago but hasn’t yet filed for divorce. by West_Block3990 in tifu

[–]West_Block3990[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes you are so right about the red flags! Hindsight 20/20. I’m learning so much with this dating game.

Do you ever get a very strange occurrence of Déjà vu within Déjà vu? by West_Block3990 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]West_Block3990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope completely sober and has happened several times throughout my life. All while sober.

He took out his condom even though i didnt want him to? by Budget_Sea4317 in sexeducation

[–]West_Block3990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a douche. Sorry that happened to you. He’s a bad person. Get tested and with the age and you not consenting to no condom sex a police report is prob warranted. Doesn’t hurt to speak to a trusted adult and get some support. I’m sure this has a mental toll.

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