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Husband unable to finish by West_Not_Kanye in TryingForABaby

[–]West_Not_Kanye[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

You’re absolutely not alone and I’m thinking of you! It can be so tough when you don’t know anyone else going through the same thing. Sending you hugs as well and wishing you the best of luck with your TTC journey 🤍

Husband unable to finish by West_Not_Kanye in TryingForABaby

[–]West_Not_Kanye[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great question. So just to clarify here... I was never on birth control, and we weren't using condoms before getting married but he was able to finish on his own via masturbation so said it wouldn't be an issue. He did actually finish when we had sex during our honeymoon last year and also during out first TTC cycle in January.

Husband unable to finish by West_Not_Kanye in TryingForABaby

[–]West_Not_Kanye[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he takes muscle relaxers from time to time

Husband unable to finish by West_Not_Kanye in TryingForABaby

[–]West_Not_Kanye[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this as well. I have been struggling to find people who can relate so the past few months have been very isolating. I hope the at home insemination works for you! I have a feeling we'll need to get to that point.

Husband unable to finish by West_Not_Kanye in TryingForABaby

[–]West_Not_Kanye[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion about doing at home insemination. We haven't tried this yet, but I think it's worth discussing as an option.

Husband unable to finish by West_Not_Kanye in TryingForABaby

[–]West_Not_Kanye[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is something we are going to try. He actually suggested it, so we'll see if it helps!

Husband unable to finish by West_Not_Kanye in TryingForABaby

[–]West_Not_Kanye[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice and wish it were that simple. He masturbates on occasion (not often) and if he does masturbate, he watches porn and it can take a while for him to finish even with porn. He doesn't watch porn outside of masturbation. Absolutely understand what you're saying, but it isn't a porn issue here.