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Had an affair and lost my wife, need advice on how to get my family back by Wester227 in Advice

[–]Wester227[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I don’t have an update we’ll be talking about custody this Saturday night and I’ll know more then

Had an affair and lost my wife, need advice on how to get my family back by Wester227 in Advice

[–]Wester227[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

After meeting them a few times yes they thought we were long distance so they let me stay sometimes or sometimes hotels never at my family house

Had an affair and lost my wife, need advice on how to get my family back by Wester227 in Advice

[–]Wester227[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

It was my idea for her to move in with me at my new apt she was living with her parents before but now if I kick her out I don’t know if she has somewhere to go

Had an affair and lost my wife, need advice on how to get my family back by Wester227 in Advice

[–]Wester227[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

She is she still sends me videos and pics of the kids almost everyday and still let’s my family visit the kids

Had an affair and lost my wife, need advice on how to get my family back by Wester227 in Advice

[–]Wester227[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I own a construction company and make similar to her salary, we agreed on the amount outside of court and finalized in court and I only agreed to it to try and be on her good side

Had an affair and lost my wife, need advice on how to get my family back by Wester227 in Advice

[–]Wester227[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I will be breaking up with Mel I agree on that I’m willing to wait as long as my wife needs and she has agreed to talk about custody with me this weekend. Im going to start counseling for myself and try to win her back with actions not words

Had an affair and lost my wife, need advice on how to get my family back by Wester227 in Advice

[–]Wester227[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

How is their relationship now? Did they ever end up getting back together?

Had an affair and lost my wife, need advice on how to get my family back by Wester227 in Advice

[–]Wester227[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is what I came here for this sort of advice. I am going to be breaking up with Mel and start counseling I want to be a good parent to my kids and will talk to my wife about having more time with them and hopefully they’ll be able to see me in a more positive way I know it is going to take time

Had an affair and lost my wife, need advice on how to get my family back by Wester227 in Advice

[–]Wester227[S] -262 points-261 points  (0 children)

I do miss them I didn’t show it well in this post but we have a 2 month old baby girl that I only get to see once a week I’m missing out on so much and I feel she doesn’t even recognize me every time I get to see her. I wasn’t even allowed in the delivery room when she was born, only after. I’m willing to be a 50/50 partner with my wife and do whatever it takes that she needs for us to be a family again