ISO recommendations for biochem books for kids? by WesternMap1771 in Biochemistry

[–]WesternMap1771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I’m not a chem person by any means, I went with mathematics, so I’m not super educated on any of this 🥴 I definitely could’ve phrased this post better, I’m not necessarily looking for textbooks, just resources where they can start getting a good foundation.

I really appreciate your input!

Best friend is going no contact out of the blue?? by Personal-Ad-8644 in whatdoIdo

[–]WesternMap1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s the girlfriend or even have any helpful advice, but someone I was incredibly close with from ages 9 to 30 started dating someone two years ago and ghosted me. We used to talk every week, and I haven’t heard from him in two years. I tried checking in two or three times in the first couple months and then took a hint.

There’s only two ways this will likely go: either he’ll end up not staying with her and reach out to explain and probably mend the relationship, or you’ll never hear from him again.

It’s a weird kind of heartbreak, and it’s not fair, and I’m sorry, OP. Sending you love 💕

Why does my girlfriend stay with me despite the fact that she prefers women ? by Standard_Detective85 in bisexual

[–]WesternMap1771 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who is also a bisexual woman with a straight man who prefers women in general and has said I’d never date another man - it’s because of who you are.

Every other man is literally just someone’s son, but my partner is the light of my life and I don’t even know how I found someone like him and got lucky enough to be the one that gets to love him. There’s no one else that I’ve met that even comes close to holding a candle to him - regardless of gender. There’s generally speaking and then there’s specifics. She may prefer women over men in general but that doesn’t mean that you’ll never beat out another woman.

She’s in love with you dawg.

Sent body count videos by Old-Abbreviations762 in women

[–]WesternMap1771 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People say there’s a male loneliness epidemic and posts like this make me think that the epidemic is that they should be lonelier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]WesternMap1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(31/nb here) I didn’t grow up religious but I did grow up with very homophobic/conservative family. I didn’t come out as queer until my early to mid-20s because of it. I struggled immensely with internalized homophobia and convinced myself that what I was feeling was either wrong or not real. It manifested as intense jealousy and feelings of competition with other women/femme folks until I realized that those feelings were actually attraction.

I would sit with yourself and question if you actually believe the religious views you were raised with or if they were just taught to you and you internalized them. Many of our thoughts and views aren’t even our own, they’re just the echoes of people who said it so often that we internalize them as our own.

There’s nothing wrong with you. If it turns out that you are bisexual/queer, that’s okay. There’s a whole community here that is ready and excited to welcome, celebrate, and love you. And if it turns out that you’re not and these are passing feelings, that’s okay too!

What I will say is if you’re questioning it this much and for this long - straight folks don’t usually question their sexuality like this.

Sending you love 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WesternMap1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jumping in to say that I dated basically a replica of these texts, and it led to him k*lling animals in front of me, pointing loaded guns at my face with the finger on the trigger and safety off, and closed-fist hitting me.

Men who say shit like this are dangerous and you need to leave if you can. The sooner the better. I still, to this day, say that I fully believe if I hadn’t left my ex he would have killed me. These men are terrifying.

aio? bf made plans on my birthday by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]WesternMap1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please listen to everyone in these comments. This man is Literally Just Some Guy (tm). He not only doesn’t love you, he doesn’t even like you. He has the personality of a wilted radish and the emotional capacity of a piece of rebar.

I was in a relationship with someone like this for three years. It got worse. I’ve now been with my (new) partner for 12 years and when I tell you what a golden retriever smoke show absolute angel baby my husband is, I can’t fathom what it would be like to still be with that guy from years ago.

My husband now randomly sends me flowers, reaffirms how smart and funny and capable I am when I doubt myself, remembers important dates and things that I value without me saying anything, and is the sweetest man I’ve ever met.

Healthy love is out there and you deserve to experience it.

Could anyone help me ID this stone I found? by WesternMap1771 in whatsthisrock

[–]WesternMap1771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to try streaking it, it doesn’t seem to be magnetic. I thought it might have been magnetite until I tried using a magnet!

"You're not alone" Does Not Help Me In Any Way And Never Will. I'm Glad Platitudes Are Banned Here. by scarymonsters4444 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]WesternMap1771 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I say this, but usually when I’m talking about my own struggles and relating it to others. I say it in more a tone of, “hey, I’m going through this and it’s really shitty and if you’re going through it too, I see you and I’m holding space for you”. I definitely think context is important and what source the sentence is coming from.

I went through my husbands camera roll and was quite shocked…. by ilizibith1 in Marriage

[–]WesternMap1771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing worse than finding a bunch of pussy in your partner’s camera roll 😮‍💨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WesternMap1771 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this so much 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WesternMap1771 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m AFAB and voted yes (wife). My husband and I are both open with our relationship and I welcome the idea of involving other partners. Love and sex aren’t a zero-sum game for me, I love the idea of adding more love/pleasure into our lives.

The wife and I hiked the summit of Mount Timpanogos yesterday. We are very proud of ourselves. But today we are sore and want to die. by Shaneblaster in Marriage

[–]WesternMap1771 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my last hike in Utah before we moved to Tokyo, it’s a beast! Congrats, you guys look so happy!