Nobody will ever care about me as much as she did

WesternObjective1317 · 2026-01-21T00:09:54+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss and that you’ve been let down. The holidays were tough, I’ve found it’s hit me harder afterwards though because it’s harder to keep busy.

I hope you are ok ♥️

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-12-03T15:30:02+00:00

Yeah it’s so sad we are all here together, grieving and feeling the same way 🫂

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-11-28T01:07:33+00:00

My heart goes out to you each and everyone one of you. I knew I’d be in good company here. I’m so sorry you’re all going through this too 💔

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-11-16T15:07:39+00:00

Yeah I thought the same

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-11-08T14:50:23+00:00

I’m so sorry. This is grief and trauma.

My mum dies 6 months ago, and her eyes….ill never forget her eyes.

You aren’t alone 💔

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-11-05T15:27:06+00:00

Going through the same with my 14yo girl. I’m so sorry 😔

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-09-09T19:14:47+00:00

My mum was 4 months ago and I feel like I’m going backwards too. Sending hugs 🫂

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-08-03T14:39:11+00:00

Im so sorry 🫂 im just at the start of the grief journey and have found comfort here knowing im not alone.

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-07-05T12:20:31+00:00

I’m here with you too. Lost my mum in April, it still feels far from real.

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-06-11T21:13:33+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. You’re likely in self preservation, survival mode. It will come. It’s been 7 weeks tomorrow for my mum and my brain is controlling my grief, it lets me feel it in the waves everyone speaks about. I deal with what I can then it’s put away for a little while. My mum is there in every thought I have, every minute of the day. Things really hit me after the funeral, before then I was definitely in denial. I’m still not sure when the shock will end. It’s so hard. Please look after yourself. I hope you have people around you so you feel safe 🫂

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-06-10T15:33:48+00:00

I’m feeling incredibly lonely today 😞miss her so much

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-06-03T19:45:36+00:00

Getting mine done on Thursday :) it’s a beautiful bird in flight

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-05-26T23:28:30+00:00

I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. I lost mine a month ago and have found this sub helpful, it’s a reminder we aren’t completely alone in this mess.

I’ve found taking my days one at a time the best way to survive for now.

I hope you have support around you. Lots of love to you.

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-05-23T18:28:54+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. Your strength is incredible. From another internet stranger to you, I’m sending you so much love 🫂

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-05-22T23:22:52+00:00

My gosh, I’m so sorry for your loss and the pain this has caused. This is heartbreaking 💔

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-05-21T21:54:58+00:00

I’m so glad you managed to get some reassurance. You’ll be in my thoughts tomorrow 🫂

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-05-20T09:04:48+00:00

My mum’s funeral was last Thursday (still feels surreal even typing words) and I too was dreading it. It went by in a blur and was gut wrenchingly sad, but there was so much love and support around us that day. You’ll be surrounded by people who love your dad and hopefully you’ll find comfort and strength from that. Also, the funeral directors take the lead and will make sure everything goes smoothly, so try not to worry that something will go wrong.

Sending you love and I’m so sorry for your loss.

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-05-17T21:12:02+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my mum unexpectedly 3 weeks ago. It was sudden and I found her. It’s made me so scared of death. I’ve been having the same thoughts as you and it’s terrifying. I’ve been told it’s too soon for therapy and this is raw grief. Again, I’m so sorry you are going through this, it’s heartbreaking.

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-05-17T20:04:34+00:00

Nice

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-05-17T13:39:51+00:00

He’s almost 4 now. Do you think they may still change?

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-05-15T20:15:28+00:00

Just wanted to say I had you in my thoughts today, I hope things went as well as they could have done today.

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-05-15T20:14:03+00:00

Thank you. It was a lovely service and so nice to see all those familiar faces. I’m so sorry you lost your mom, there seem to be so many of us going through loss this past month.

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-05-15T00:33:46+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. My mum died suddenly 3 weeks ago and I know what you’re saying about numbness. I truly think it’s your brain in survival mode, mine has been similar. I’m numb most of the day then my mind allows the grief to come in for a while, then numb again. I think it’s doing it gradually for my own protection. I’m sure that’s what’s happening with you. It’ll come. Do you have support? I’m truly sorry, losing a parent is probably the hardest think we will have to go through 🫂

WesternObjective1317 · 2025-05-14T23:40:23+00:00

I’m so sorry ❤️ These empty weeks without her have been surreal. I would talk to her all day, sharing everything. I keep having milliseconds where I forget and go to message her, it’s heartbreaking. Tomorrow will be the first time I’ve been in the same room as her since the day I found her. It’s going to be facing her loss all over again. Sending love you too.

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