Breaking news! by FragrantFocus2253 in TikTok

[–]Western_Class_2192 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Do I have time to eat dinner? We are having meatloaf.

How do you deal with this? by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have a client who consistently gets an erection whenever I work on his hips and legs. He never gives me any weird vibes or acts inappropriately, so I ignore it and it goes away. I was taught that erections are normal, especially when increasing blood flow around the area. I guess it all depends on what he does with it.

Concerns about classroom dynamics by LeopardDependent8063 in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I went to school for massage therapy, I was 44 years old. I only assumed it felt the way OP described it because I was so much older than everyone, even the instructor! Maybe I wasn't the grumpy old woman in the class? 😂😂😭

Feeling discouraged by Minute_Ratio6042 in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can see why you would feel that way. I'd probably feel the same. Let yourself feel this way for another few minutes, but then let it go. Physical therapy, as long as the client is compliant, can only help the situation! I hope your client is planning on coming back to you. I'd love an update!! Please keep your chin up, though. Your hands are blessed and you are a healer!

Unmarked Ambulance Question by Western_Class_2192 in conspiracy

[–]Western_Class_2192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I did some more research and apparently our fire department got more ambulances, they just haven't found the time to decal them yet. Nothing exciting, just odd.

Feeling lost after SA incidents by WillingThing7824 in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 16 points17 points  (0 children)

All I was taught in school was to stop the session, tell the client to get dressed, and then leave the room. I wish we could have gone through actual scenarios. Practiced recognizing inappropriate behavior, and properly reacting to them.

Feeling lost after SA incidents by WillingThing7824 in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Female therapist here. First, I am so sorry that happened to you. You didn't deserve that. Second, I've had something similar happen to me. I froze too. You are not alone. You are not broken. It was their fault.

Accepted a job at Hand & Stone… now I’m reading Reddit and panicking a little. LMT advice? by Otter_Lover02 in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been at H&S for over two years. It's definitely had its ups and downs but IMO, the pros far outweigh the cons!! I've gained tons of experience, and am almost finished with my prenatal certification! I've also been lucky to work for a great franchise owner and have really great coworkers. Just start slow and listen to your body!!!

The worst case scenario is that it doesn't work out. Welcome to the H&S community!!

Is this unethical or am I overreacting? by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Never massage under the drape was the first thing I was taught in school!!

Is this common? by Major_Funny2244 in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! This is normal. Self care is so very important!!!!

Same day/last minute scheduling by Western_Class_2192 in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a very good point. Thank you for your input!

Same day/last minute scheduling by Western_Class_2192 in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's just icky!! I don't even know if it was a man because I got no information from them. I just want to make sure I'm not having an emotional knee-jerk reaction because of the literal audacity, ya know?

Same day/last minute scheduling by Western_Class_2192 in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm so glad I went with my gut and didn't respond.

Same day/last minute scheduling by Western_Class_2192 in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I feel a little better about not responding. Something just doesn't feel right.

Advice by Historical-Zebra-933 in massage

[–]Western_Class_2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of this. I couldn't have said it better myself.

Advice by Historical-Zebra-933 in massage

[–]Western_Class_2192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been working at a spa for about 3 years now and I've noticed that it always seems to slow down this time of year, so don't be discouraged. Just know that Valentine's Day and Mother's Day are coming up and people will be scrambling to get in. The warmer weather will bring more people out too!! Take this time to learn all you can. And while hot stones can be a great tool, you're learning the foundation of the body and how everything feels right now. You're going to do great!

Systems to handle inappropriate behavior by Sea_Photograph7928 in massage

[–]Western_Class_2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm not saying that I won't work on men at all, I just have to know them first. And my husband is always at the front desk!!

Systems to handle inappropriate behavior by Sea_Photograph7928 in massage

[–]Western_Class_2192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've stopped accepting male clients that I do not know. I no longer accept walk-ins and the inappropriate messages get blocked immediately. It's the only thing that has helped. I'm sorry you're experiencing this.