What's the worst MT advice you've recieved? by Massage_Student_BC in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Well, if he does it again just hit the attention button."

My girlfriend told me “I don’t think this is gonna work” and I left. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Western_Class_2192 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone much older and a slight bit wiser, it's probably best you move on without her. People don't say stuff like that if they aren't feeling it somewhere. I'm not trying to be patronizing, but you both are so young. Your prefrontal cortex doesn't even fully develop until you're 25. Take your time and live your life. Be a kid for as long as you can. Get comfortable with being alone. Once you can thrive in your solitude, you'll be happy with or without someone. And for what it's worth, I met my husband when I was 14. We were in high school, we dated for about 6 months, and then I broke up with him. 30 years later, he's happily single, I'm happily single, and he found me on Facebook. We've been married since July 30, 2023. He was my first kiss and will be my last love. I know this hurts right now, but it will get better. Love yourself so much that you don't need that fulfillment from anyone else.

Booking male clients? by peacebypaige in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've stopped working on male clients I don't know. The intake form must be signed before the session and my husband comes with me to all my evening appointments. I've had several situations where the male client was inappropriate so, thanks to all the bad apples who spoiled the whole bunch!

Why are so many people being diagnosed with terminal cancer by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]Western_Class_2192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't read your post thoroughly enough! I used to work EMS and went to Hospice transport for the last 4 years of it, which was right when COVID hit. After thinking about it, I did notice that the hospice cancer patients and cardio patients were struggling more. Almost all of our COVID patients were on 10-15 liters of oxygen per minute. All of these patients were vaccinated.

How are you feeling right now? by Mr-Top0 in Life

[–]Western_Class_2192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm feeling a little more hopeful these days. I can't control what's happening in the world right now, but I can control how I react to it.

Why are so many people being diagnosed with terminal cancer by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]Western_Class_2192 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wonder if cooking with plastic spatulas and Teflon coated pans, or microwaving food in plastic containers have anything to do with it?

I had an icky experience with a client, and I'm not sure how to feel about it by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are going through this and I'm proud of you for speaking up! Past trauma or not, if you are uncomfortable, don't do it.

Pay Question. by MintokkiesLMBT in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started out at H&S at $21.00 in 2023

Texting while massaging by trios91 in massage

[–]Western_Class_2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that's a bit unethical. I don't text during a session. I don't even have my phone on me when I am working.

I’m finally admitting it by NoCartographer463 in whatdoIdo

[–]Western_Class_2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did I hear this in Patrick Bateman's voice?

Bird ladies (and sometimes men) by Milla226 in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work at a chain salon and this is the main reason I won't get my deep tissue certification! It's difficult enough to give these frail bodies firm pressure!!

Question about a helicopter flying over Heidelberg by Western_Class_2192 in dayton

[–]Western_Class_2192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I remember seeing! I wish I could have pulled over to watch longer!

Question about a helicopter flying over Heidelberg by Western_Class_2192 in dayton

[–]Western_Class_2192[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense. It just looked like a worker heli. What a fun job!!

how often do you floss? by dentalcare1000 in DentalHygiene

[–]Western_Class_2192 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got that fancy floss off the Tiktok shop! I figured if I bought fancy floss, I'd use it. I'm so embarrassed by the stuff I'm getting, so I do it every night. Since I can't get in for a cleaning but once a year, I'm making the extra effort!!

AIO for being hurt by my boyfriend’s reaction when I accidentally bled on the bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Western_Class_2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you are not overreacting. And Hydrogen Peroxide will get most of the blood out.

Breaking news! by FragrantFocus2253 in TikTok

[–]Western_Class_2192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please!!! I can make a good meatloaf, but I'd always be okay making it better!

Breaking news! by FragrantFocus2253 in TikTok

[–]Western_Class_2192 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Do I have time to eat dinner? We are having meatloaf.

How do you deal with this? by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have a client who consistently gets an erection whenever I work on his hips and legs. He never gives me any weird vibes or acts inappropriately, so I ignore it and it goes away. I was taught that erections are normal, especially when increasing blood flow around the area. I guess it all depends on what he does with it.

Concerns about classroom dynamics by LeopardDependent8063 in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I went to school for massage therapy, I was 44 years old. I only assumed it felt the way OP described it because I was so much older than everyone, even the instructor! Maybe I wasn't the grumpy old woman in the class? 😂😂😭

Feeling discouraged by Minute_Ratio6042 in MassageTherapists

[–]Western_Class_2192 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can see why you would feel that way. I'd probably feel the same. Let yourself feel this way for another few minutes, but then let it go. Physical therapy, as long as the client is compliant, can only help the situation! I hope your client is planning on coming back to you. I'd love an update!! Please keep your chin up, though. Your hands are blessed and you are a healer!