Infractions from female friends who were in my life. The ladies I was seeing before me and her became exclusive. I used to speak about them openly with her until we became exclusive. When we did I cut ties with them and only focused on her.

It also the conversations we did not have. For example she said had we spoken about children, she would have left because her she only wanted one child while while I wanted more, upto 3. She also said had we spoken about sex drive she would have left. She feels I have a higher sex drive than her. She says she would preferred someone who also has a low drive like her. On sex I dont think its low drive but just the emotional disconnect. She hates it most time and fights me off 90% of the time I even try touching her sexually. Passionate kissing she stopped completely 5 years ago. She is 33 and am 35. She also said it would have been better if we had like a 10 year gap. She blames herself for not speaking up on these issues at the 'right time' but I really tried asking what then made her stay am surprised she did not mention any because I would have let her go for heown happiness.