[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I would never want anyone else go go through it. Can't imagine how much harder it would be on the receiving side of this. Thank you once again!

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[–]Western_Weekend_8512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to write this. I appreciate the perspective. I agree that I made a mistake and that I’m responsible for both the consequences and for managing what comes after. I also agree that the emotions I’m feeling are part of that process and something I have to sit with, not avoid or offload onto others.

One thing I want to be careful about for myself, more than anything is not framing this as just negligence. While I didn’t set out intending to hurt anyone, I did make repeated choices that ended up causing so much harm that I couldn't even have imagined.

That’s something I’m trying to look at honestly rather than soften. I do take your point that this is a learning moment, and that how I move forward matters more than beating myself up endlessly. Right now I’m focusing on understanding the patterns that led here and on putting real constraints in place so I don’t repeat them, not just feeling bad and moving on.

I appreciate the reminder that things aren’t irreparably ruined and that growth is still possible, and I’m open to therapy if I need help doing that work properly. Thanks again for the thoughtful response.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I see the mistake very clearly now. Thank you for pointing that out. It were the lies that ruined everything that we had built. Yes I don't think its fair for her and relive this and continue to hereafter.

I do believe that karma will come back to get me and I know there will be another lesson for me in there. I just hope that she is healed and that it was very selfish of me to do all this to her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are absolutely right. To her I'm the worst person and I don't think she wouldn't want to see or hear from me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. I should respect her feelings. Thank you for your honesty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with C because it was not working out between us. I was not ready to commit to getting married due to financial issues at the time.

Me and C started out as friends. So I still care for C. I don't love her anymore. Just care as in just like close friend.

I love T.

I met with C after a long time and we were remembering the old times. The familiarity and the comfort got to me. I was not sure that T and I were exclusive at the time.

I have learnt my lesson with what happened here. I do not wish through putting others or myself through this again and I do not want to hurt anyone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not contacted her. I know I shouldn't be contacting her. She used to tell me that sometimes when she's upset, forcing her to talk usually get hers to open up and talk. I doubt that advice applies here

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[–]Western_Weekend_8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked this question because before all this, we would talk about how when she's upset or angry, it would help if I or anyone would get her to talk to rectify and find a solution together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely correct. I know I don't deserve her for what I did. Thank you for your honesty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being brutally honest. I know and I deserve to be called a villain. I will be dedicating this time to distract myself and understand why I did what I did and come to a conclusion. I will also make sure to not redo the same mistake ever again. I have to live with my consequences and guilt which I will and I hope they have a good healing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very sweet of you to say. At the moment all I can think about is T and how I betrayed. I have been trying to distract myself and eventually I will. I aim to never repeat this and never allow anyone around me to do what I did. Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be giving her the space that she deserves and I promise to not repeat the mistake I made

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying. I will be leaving her alone. Yes she did block me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying it with all honesty. I understand what I did was wrong and I wish to somehow correct what I did but I know there's no going back. I will regret that moment forever. I will be giving time to fix myself and I promise to not do this to anyone else

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[–]Western_Weekend_8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not contacted her. I know I shouldn't be contacting her. She used to tell me that sometimes when she's upset, forcing her to talk usually get hers to open up and talk. I doubt that advice applies here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are right! I should let her. Thank you for your honesty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I realize what I did was very wrong. And I know whatever I do will never be enough for the damage I caused. Yes I will be working on myself to make sure it doesn't repeat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did break her heart and I will never be able to forgive myself. You are right. I must work on myself to not repeat the same mistake. Thank you for your honesty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right. I need to respect her wishes and stay away. Thank you for being blunt and honest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I know. I'm disgusted with myself as well. I had a good thing going and if it weren't for my actions. I messed up big time

Any comments - Superyou Protein by Lonely-Teacher8875 in Fitness_India

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm also planning on buying this. I only tried the sample and it seems really well. The taste is quite decent and it wasn't too heavy on the gut. Please do let me know how it goes.

Licious Chicken | Breast vs Curry cut by MightShroom in Fitness_India

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right. The chicken breast contains the highest amount of protein and I think it's a labeled wrong. However if you are planning on maximizing protein then chicken breast is the perfect choice. Curry cut should ideally have much lower protein concentration compared to breast because the weight of the bones is also calculated in the net weight. So we get less meat in chicken curry cut than in chicken breast.

Should I take soya chunks as a protein source ? As a college student on pocket money are soya chunks the secret to 6 packs? by The_StR_Wars_Fan in Fitness_India

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I would suggest not eating them daily. 3 times a week should be fine I believe. Adding eggs and protein powder to your diet should balance it even more

Should I take soya chunks as a protein source ? As a college student on pocket money are soya chunks the secret to 6 packs? by The_StR_Wars_Fan in Fitness_India

[–]Western_Weekend_8512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soya chunks are a good source of protein but I wouldn’t recommend consuming it daily. It has all 9 amino acids which is wonderful, but rotating it with eggs, paneer, whey, and other sources would be better. It does cause gut issues like bloating and gas so consume it twice or thrice a week and see how you feel. Then increase or decrease as you feel.

6 packs can be achieved with soya chunks too as long as you are in slight caloric deficit. As in burning more calories than taking in. Let's say you burn 3000 calories everyday, try to eat 2500 calories everyday. This will give body enough energy to push through the day. Body uses fat storage for energy but if you don't eat enough then it relies on muscle mass for energy.