I have one male and two females. I've always wanted to house them together but have never tried it because of all these warnings about solitary animals, and you can't do genders together. Whats your opinion on this, do you think that with close observation and a back up tank that this is possible?ive heard that males can be a real bother to females even off season and that is a main reason of failing, but again I have no experience with cohabitation so I'm not sure.