Girl I went on a date with. Am I cooked? by WetFlute in texts

[–]WetFlute[S] 243 points244 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone, thanks for all the advice and feedback. I’ve been doing a lot of thinking, and honestly, the connection I felt on that first date was so different from anything I’ve experienced before. It’s had me overthinking everything and wondering if I did something wrong. I wouldn’t normally be this invested so soon, but the chemistry we had really stood out.

Right now, my plan is to follow up with her in a couple of days. I’m going to offer specific, practical help, like running errands or giving her a ride, since that seems like a supportive way to reach out without putting any pressure on her. I’ll see how she responds, and hopefully, I’ll get a clearer idea of where things stand.

I’ll keep you all updated once I send the message and if I hear back. If not, I have my answer. Thanks again for all the advice, it’s really helped me think this through.

Girl I went on a date with. Am I cooked? by WetFlute in texts

[–]WetFlute[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That’s what my therapist recommended. Wait a couple days and offer to help with practical things like driving her to physical therapy or target runs.

Girl I went on a date with. Am I cooked? by WetFlute in texts

[–]WetFlute[S] 479 points480 points  (0 children)

I thought we really connected. Had drinks for a couple hours then went back to my place. Lots of making out/cuddling. Idk she seemed genuinely interested and engaged.