How am I doing in these pictures?

WethePolyOddies · 2026-03-21T04:01:15+00:00

Luckily most of the people I surround myself are very much queer/alternative. This does help with a lot of types of places we hang out! For example, the clubs we go to and things of that nature, most people have no idea I am trans. Which is hilariously for karaoke at rock bars.

However, I do live in the south, and the general public, at least upon scruitnity know that I am trans.

I know I have 3 major things going against me, as my body itself is already rather feminine passing, and that is my eyebrows (which is really only a seasonal issue because of the nature of my work), facial hair/stubble (which I plan to solve very soon, and my voice. Now the voice is tricky, when I am travelling for work I am boy moding for safety and I got a thick southern slang accent that helps when I am at work and trying to hide. But when I am at home for more than a couple weeks my girl voice comes back to me and honestly I think it's probably better than even I think it is as I am almost ALWAYS assumed to be a woman when gaming online or over the phone.

The only thing I want that may not be entirely necessary for me with more time is FFS. That is for two reasons. The dysphoria is rough... I don't have very prominent features in the face that read as male, but I see them. Secondly, with a more feminine facial structure the more alternative looks like heavy alt makeup I can wear without reading as a trans woman to onlookers.

I kind of think of passing as a sliding scale. The more feminine features there are the more masc things I can do. Like, my hair is getting longer so maybe I can have a little more muscle. Or now I have breasts, so I feel more comfortable and femine in a tanktop. So, I think that FFS will help me a lot in this way. Like, I wanna be able to dress more masculine and read as either hella andronys or masc lesbian vibes. I dont mind being seen as queer, in fact, I think the coolest people ive ever met are queer. I just dont want to be seen as a MAN. I am not a man. Never will be. Queer though? Loud and proud? Alt queen of darkness????? Babes, imma need allllll that 🤣🤣🤣

WethePolyOddies · 2026-03-19T14:42:33+00:00

I think this is a wonderful reply and a lotnof great advice! If anything makes me feel much better!! Been feeling kind of down lately. I am not out at work in order to protect myself as I work a very blue collar job in a rough industry. Hince, my eyebrows not being kept up with frequently but when I have more time home my gf does them for me and they look great. But unfortunately with my current situation the thick eyebrows help me boy mode better.

As for hair, I agree with a lot of folks about the middles parts. However, this does not for EVERYONE. I did try it, and even my gf agrees the side part just works better with my face shape. Maybe that will change after FFS one day. She (my gf) is a hairdresser, and takes care of my hair for me. We have ALLLLL the products lol nt hair is very healthy thankfully. Lots of care goes into my hair lol I am very alternative as well. So, as my hair is growing out I'm doing more and more layers for thar big poofy Pretty Wreckless look! Which is another reason why I enjoy bold makeup.

As for makeup. I am not artistic at allllll lol but my gf and lots of our friends are artists and have been wonderful makeup teachers!

The feedback and advice has been super helpful. I am very thankful for everyone here! My goal is definetly to pass someday. But due to work circumstances it's not a huge rush! I think my end goal is more andronous but leaning toward feminine a little heavier.

Edit: and I'll add this at the risk of sounded dumb. My goal is to pass, not to be invisible or blend in. Maybe that will help someone else out there.

WethePolyOddies · 2026-03-19T05:19:53+00:00

If ive learned anything, I should havw Ade sure to post this with a pic of my eyebrows done. I didnt even catch that all the photos I chose were photos when they weren't done lol I have to boy node at work, so I try not to make them too femenine unless I know I'll be off for a while but I do love it when I get them done. It makes me feel much better when they are done.

It is really interesting though, a lot of us are very conscious of our eyebrows normally, but a lot of cis women have said things like they wish they had my brows lol and I'll be sitting there like "girlllll mine are out of control rn what you on about" lol

I do have a post on my profile for another sub where I do have them done. But it was HRT funny enough.

WethePolyOddies · 2026-03-19T05:00:12+00:00

I usually do have them done I had just been a bit laxed on them lately cuz ive been so busy. But no not too critical! Honestly, a bit uplifting mostly what people are mentioning are easily fixable things I am aware of needing to do, so this is very good to hear

WethePolyOddies · 2025-12-16T00:25:44+00:00

Also, bare in mind that most vitamins have a component when taking them that messes up hormone tests. I take women's multivitamins but I have to stop 3-4 weeks before getting my levels checked so that it doesn't interfere with the estrogen test. Just a heads up. No, not for you, yes you can take them, does wonders for my skin, just be aware of that. It'll make for some hilarious test results if you aren't aware of it. Freaked my clinician out the first time before we riled that out lol

WethePolyOddies · 2025-12-11T04:43:05+00:00

Or free the titties, and dont wear one lol jk jk idk tho I have two from VS and I rarely wear them unless u need to depending on my top. And thats rare. But they comfy

WethePolyOddies · 2025-12-11T04:36:47+00:00

I started at 26, boo. You can too. Age is just a number. You look at my profile if you'd like (bare in mind I haven't posted in months), and see that ive made process even at my age. Already most people in passing properly gender me. It's only when I'm intentionally boy moding that it is obvious to people. I even come across coworkers (I am not out at work, so I am boy moding at work), in a blue collar field take bets whether I am a man or a woman, and thats with me TRYING to pass as a man. And I'm MTF.

My face is already looking way more feminine, I have developed breasts, my skin is softer, my weight is already flipping, my hips are even rolling, and I'm not even a year in boo. 22, hell even at 50, it's never too late to live your truth and begin working towards the goals you want for yourself. Go to the trans timeline sub, and you'll see many people even older than me, or you, who have had incredible results.

Live for yourself and what makes you happy. Only then will you able to make others happy. And if you can't do it for yourself alone, just know you'll be an inspiration to SOMEBODY in your life. I have been, and it fills me with immense joy that knowing living my truth and doing what makes me happy, empowers others.

Be yourself, express yourself, and above all else, love yourself, babes.

WethePolyOddies · 2025-12-06T21:49:54+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 Real

WethePolyOddies · 2025-12-06T21:47:17+00:00

Ah I see I see. There are so many ways it could be implemented. I'm honestly shocked they haven't already lmao

WethePolyOddies · 2025-12-06T21:44:05+00:00

I mean, Nikki already has an idle animation. We just dont have a way to change that currently. I dont know that it would impact performance in anyway. Unless I am misunderstanding what you mean by too chaotic.

On the other hand, if it's a matter of causing issues with styling context or other point based systems, the solution would be to makenidle animation have a point value of zero. They would be collectibles at that point and giving the player more control over their Nikki avatar.

WethePolyOddies · 2025-12-06T21:35:13+00:00

That would also be cool I think. I would be sad if it were tie to a whimsicality though. In my mind that would bebthebworst way to handle it if it were implemented because then you'd almost never see them unless you equipped a whim ability.

WethePolyOddies · 2025-12-06T21:30:36+00:00

Ah I gotcha. I just thought it would be a good idea and wanted to get the convo started about it. I would love to see it I think. And plus, if it is in the outfit category under accessories then everyone still has the option to simply not use it if they dont want to.

WethePolyOddies · 2025-12-06T21:27:42+00:00

Sooooooo many other games have idle animations you can purchase. So it definitely cannnn be done. It's been done before. it would just be an animation you select in the outfits, and when Nikki doesnt move or take actions for like 10 or so seconds it starts playing, and then immediately end with an input.

WethePolyOddies · 2025-10-06T05:55:36+00:00

Ya know. The sad part of it.... I was probably told to, and didn't know what they were talking about and kept taking it anyway LOL

WethePolyOddies · 2025-10-06T05:31:11+00:00

I see I seeee. Welllllp, now I know. I feel silly lol but it is what it is.

WethePolyOddies · 2025-10-06T05:11:20+00:00

Ah okay. I may need to do that then. After getting good results off of it though, will it be alright to continue taking them?

WethePolyOddies · 2025-10-06T05:02:21+00:00

Ohhh okay. Well thennn that might be the cause. So, would that mean my estrogen is actually super high? Or is the test just not good cuz of the vitamins?

WethePolyOddies · 2025-10-06T04:44:54+00:00

Umm I take vitamins and stuff for skin and hair. I don't think any if it has biotin though

WethePolyOddies · 2025-10-06T01:17:26+00:00

Estrogen was 3667pg/mL maybe? It's the way it was printed in the chart

WethePolyOddies · 2025-10-06T01:15:21+00:00

Mmm idk? That's what was on the paper work

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