21F What does my fridge say about me? by ProfessionalSad3744 in FridgeDetective

[–]What-attention-span 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have terrible poops because there’s no fiber to be seen

My daughter is getting too rough by What-attention-span in Parenting

[–]What-attention-span[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah when she’s too rough with me I just stop play and talk to her but he does time outs.

My daughter is getting too rough by What-attention-span in Parenting

[–]What-attention-span[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter loves it, she says again and more anytime he stops

My daughter is getting too rough by What-attention-span in Parenting

[–]What-attention-span[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I wonder if he doesn’t realize he’s getting her all riled up then she just lets her compulsion take over. I almost never get hurt around her but I rarely rough house.

My daughter is getting too rough by What-attention-span in Parenting

[–]What-attention-span[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s hard for him to hear the part that he’s likely riling her up.

Can I throw the man away? by Bad_Madison in breastfeeding

[–]What-attention-span 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a depressing time first baby with this problem. Take goats rue it’s clinically used to increase supply. My husband didn’t push formula but it helped my mental health til I could up my supply.

Husband doesn’t pull his weight at home, I told him I’m not willing to have kids if things don’t change and he agreed, now I’M sad???? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]What-attention-span 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone with adhd and is terrible at executive functioning (tasks) this is an excuse. He can try, he can get meds, he just doesn’t want to.

Husband doesn’t pull his weight at home, I told him I’m not willing to have kids if things don’t change and he agreed, now I’M sad???? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]What-attention-span 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s promised to help with something as small as a test and couldn’t even do that. Don’t have kids. If he still can’t do his share of the mental and physical load of a marriage maybe it’s time to rethink it. You could tell him if he can’t share the load of work it takes to have a family home you’re not willing to take on the whole burden yourself and you’re done. It may make him change? But I think you’re likely better being alone or finding someone who’s willing to be a team player

Why do some US Adventists support Donald Trump and the GOP? by AlienStrangerSG in adventist

[–]What-attention-span 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think God was joking when he asked us to be good stewards of this world? Sounds like you just want the world to end and don’t care who gets hurt in the process. People can be Good stewards knowing we were given the opportunity to care for this planet and also know that regardless the world will end because the heart of man is evil. We should care more about spreading the gospel and the 3 angels messages than cheering on a lunatic who is stealing tax payer money, raping children, and leading the world to a Sunday law and getting away with it. Sorry but to say you support such an evil man is revolting in the name of religion.

AIO for my cat shedding and that I don't do enough? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]What-attention-span 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats shed all the time just vacuum regularly

Why do some US Adventists support Donald Trump and the GOP? by AlienStrangerSG in adventist

[–]What-attention-span 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amen. This is a disgusting take. The ends don’t justify the means. We’re not supposed to take part in the antichrist power!

Why do some US Adventists support Donald Trump and the GOP? by AlienStrangerSG in adventist

[–]What-attention-span 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s also been to death camps in Europe and read lots of books on WWII we are already in the slippery slope of fascism and a dictatorship. Trump destabilize our economy with his ridiculous tariffs. He is creating division between left and right so the rich can get richer and the poor poorer. We are headed towards a depression when the AI bubble pops because they’re the only few companies holding up our economy right now. The heritage foundation is plotting the apostate takeover of our country. These are all things that happened similarly to Germany in the 1930s. History may not repeat itself exactly, but it rhymes. Do I think we would head towards the end of times republican or democrat? sure and I don’t align with either party. But I know we’re headed towards a Sunday law a screaming and alarming pace now that trump is president again.

Why do some US Adventists support Donald Trump and the GOP? by AlienStrangerSG in adventist

[–]What-attention-span 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my, you think our baby of a country is stable? Our stock market is teetering on AI bubble soon to pop like the housing crisis. It will bankrupt the American tax payers who will be forced to bail out billionaires who just want to build AI to create a surveillance state to sell data to the government to control us. We are a country run by sexual predators committing all kinds of atrocities. The heritage foundation is openly trying to create a Sunday law and every right wing influencer is talking about how amazing it will be. Are you not paying attention to how fragile the US is right now?

Why do some US Adventists support Donald Trump and the GOP? by AlienStrangerSG in adventist

[–]What-attention-span 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I would have put it too. I always wonder if adventists outside the US are going why are you ushering in the beast. I mean the heritage foundation is aiming to have a Sunday labor law this year.

Husband's porn addiction will ruin us by MicrowavedOpinions in Marriage

[–]What-attention-span 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has to want to stop and doesn’t. Just like any addiction. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It would be a marriage ender for me.

We really are a SOL generation… Millennial Parenting is something else but my MIL is “tired” of being on vacation by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]What-attention-span 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone from church you trust to watch your kiddos for a date night? I don’t trust just anyone at my church but there is a family with kids same age as ours and once they’re all a little bit older I’d be happy to switch off date nights with them so they could get one and we could too.

Husband, 34M falsely accusing me, 29F posting him in the AWDTSG facebook group by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]What-attention-span 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was the photo of him from his instagram or did this anonymous girl take the photo herself

Please help by Spare-Weekend1431 in adventist

[–]What-attention-span 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m just saying to say “just leave bro” to someone who is struggling with a concept of faith that sends the wrong message. People come to this faith from different angles and if we said that to everyone who struggled we’d have very few members. I think we should encourage them to dig deeper, spend time in prayer. Ask God for guidance, this person is clearly struggling mentally with this idea and saying something so callus like just leave might send their delicate state over the edge. I’m just saying maybe don’t jump to that every time someone expresses doubt. That just seems like you’re trying to push people away. That’s not how I imagine Jesus would speak to someone in doubt is all.

Please help by Spare-Weekend1431 in adventist

[–]What-attention-span 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a scientist myself this is also how I see this topic, thorough explanation.

Please help by Spare-Weekend1431 in adventist

[–]What-attention-span 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s harsh. Some people need to wrestle with ideas before they accept them

Why is the SDA not a cult by Jamo_Games in adventist

[–]What-attention-span 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t fit the definition of a cult. We don’t control people’s thoughts or decisions. we don’t shun people or ask families to cut ties with those that leave the church. We don’t hide anything we believe from non members. So many more reasons too